The Popular Science Monthly, June, 1900: Vol. 57, May, 1900 to October, 1900Various
Science
The Popular Science Monthly, June, 1900: Vol. 57, May, 1900 to October, 1900
Various
Science -- Periodicals; Technology -- Periodicals
MORAL SENSE.--The first sign of moral sense was noticed at the age
of nearly thirteen months; I said, “Doddy (his nickname) won’t give
poor papa a kiss,--naughty Doddy.” These words, without doubt, made
him feel slightly uncomfortable; and at last, when I had returned to
my chair, he protruded his lips as a sign that he was ready to kiss
me; and he then shook his hand in an angry manner until I came and
received his kiss. Nearly the same little scene recurred in a few
days, and the reconciliation seemed to give him so much satisfaction
that several times afterwards he pretended to be angry and slapped me,
and then insisted on giving me a kiss. So that here we have a touch
of the dramatic art, which is so strongly pronounced in most young
children. About this time it became easy to work on his feelings and
make him do whatever was wanted. When two years and three months old,
he gave his last bit of gingerbread to his little sister, and then
cried out with high self-approbation, “Oh, kind Doddy, kind Doddy.”
Two months later he became extremely sensitive to ridicule, and was so
suspicious that he often thought people who were laughing and talking
together were laughing at him. A little later (two years and seven and
a half months old) I met him coming out of the dining-room with his
eyes unnaturally bright, and an odd, unnatural or affected manner, so
that I went into the room to see who was there, and found that he had
been taking pounded sugar, which he had been told not to do. As he had
never been in any way punished, his odd manner certainly was not due
to fear, and I suppose it was pleasurable excitement struggling with
conscience. A fortnight afterwards I met him coming out of the same
room, and he was eyeing his pinafore, which he had carefully rolled
up; and again his manner was so odd that I determined to see what was
within his pinafore, notwithstanding that he said there was nothing,
and repeatedly commanded me to “go away,” and I found it stained with
pickle-juice; so that here was carefully planned deceit. As this child
was educated solely by working on his good feelings, he soon became as
truthful, open and tender as any one could desire.
UNCONSCIOUSNESS, SHYNESS.--No one can have attended to very young
children without being struck at the unabashed manner in which they
fixedly stare without blinking their eyes at a new face; an old person
can look in this manner only at an animal or inanimate object. This,
I believe, is the result of young children not thinking in the least
about themselves, and therefore not being in the least shy, though they
are sometimes afraid of strangers. I saw the first symptom of shyness
in my child when nearly two years and three months old; this was shown
towards myself, after an absence of ten days from home, chiefly by his
eyes being kept slightly averted from mine; but he soon came and sat on
my knee and kissed me, and all trace of shyness disappeared.
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