The practical housewife : $b A complete encyclopædia of domestic economy and family medical guidePhilp, Robert Kemp
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The practical housewife : $b A complete encyclopædia of domestic economy and family medical guide
Philp, Robert Kemp
Formulas, recipes, etc.; Home economics; Medicine, Popular
We trust that our readers will not for a moment imagine that we have
any objection to accomplishments, that we would have a woman be merely
an upper servant in the house it is her province to guide, that we
consider the kitchen her only sphere, or that we undervalue intellectual
acquirements, and elegant occupations. Far from it; but we would have
our model housewife familiar with all the routine of domestic duties,
well acquainted with the minutiæ of household economy, and perfectly
competent to direct, or if need be, teach her servants—ay, even in cases
of necessity, to do things herself.
Every now and then we hear of a great stir being made about the “rights
of women,” and claims made for their having an equal amount of power,
and an equally active part in the business of life with men. It is by no
means our intention to enter into the merits or demerits of that subject,
but what we have to say is this, that if women were, from the highest
to the lowest, more systematically educated to wield properly the great
amount of power they _do_ possess, and if they were habituated actively
and energetically to enter into that portion of the business of life
which is their own peculiar sphere, this world would be a much happier
and better one.
There is a medium, however, in all things. A woman who worries all within
her reach by her ultra-housewifery, who damps one down with soap and
water, poisons one with furniture polish, takes away one’s appetite by
the trouble there is about cooking the simplest thing, and fidgets one by
over-done preciseness and cleanliness, is almost as much to be avoided as
a downright sluggard, or the veriest simpleton.
Neither would we have domestic economy and home duties vaunted, or made
the constant theme of conversation; they are the private employments of
woman; she must study other things in order to entertain her relatives
and friends. Those who talk most of their duties are generally those
who perform them most imperfectly. When a man returns to his home,
or enters his sitting-room, fatigued and perhaps disappointed by the
business of the day, he does not want to be annoyed by the details of
domestic accidents, the misdemeanours of servants, and the cheating of
tradespeople. He has had _his_ worries during the day, too, and with that
pride, or reserve, or want of confidence which is peculiar to most men,
he keeps them to himself.
Many a girl can make good pastry, or dress up jellies, and such like, for
an evening party, and being much complimented for her labours by those
who relish the produce, forthwith fancies herself a capital housewife,
while in all probability, she scarcely knows how vegetables are cooked,
is profoundly ignorant of the prices of the commonest articles of daily
consumption, and could not tell of what material a house-cloth should be
made.
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