The practical housewife : $b A complete encyclopædia of domestic economy and family medical guidePhilp, Robert Kemp
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The practical housewife : $b A complete encyclopædia of domestic economy and family medical guide
Philp, Robert Kemp
Formulas, recipes, etc.; Home economics; Medicine, Popular
We know it is the fashion to speak of servants as “necessary evils,”
and to decry them as “a bad set.” Surely, if there is any truth in
old proverbs, there must be faults in the mistresses as well as the
domestics, for we have heard that “good mistresses make good servants:”
how comes it, then, that there are so many bad ones? Firstly, from the
defective education of that class whence female servants are generally
taken. Born in those miserable localities where poverty is compelled to
dwell; reared among scenes of vice, often in the midst dirt, misery, and
temptation; taught to read at some Sunday-school, the moral lessons of
which were but a feather in the balance against the worldly lessons of
the other six days; fed afterwards on that pernicious cheap literature
which puts all sorts of idle and vain follies, desires, and passions,
into the head, the girl is at fourteen hired for some trifling sum to
nurse a baby, and idles about the streets with others of her own age,
gossiping; or is errand girl to a dressmaker, and thus pursues her
studies of human life; or is engaged to help the mistress of some small
lodging-house, and generally works hard, and fares hard too, and gets
plenty of hard words. None of these people in general regard her as a
fellow-creature having, like their own children, need of teaching, of
guidance, of patience, and kindness; if she does pretty well, why, it is
her duty! if she does badly, she is discharged! Many a girl would have
become a valuable servant, a respectable and reasonable individual, if
in her first service she had found a mistress who knew what the duties
of a Christian woman at the head of a house were. Of course, there
are characters which no treatment, however judicious, can permanently
benefit; but still we ought to try what we can do ere we despair; and the
influence of a steady pursuance of duty is always, more or less, felt by
all within its power.
In hiring servants be particular in inquiring as to their characters,
and, if possible, learn something of the people with whom they have
lived; let all stipulations as to wages, extras, holidays, and such
matters, be clearly specified and rightly understood.
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