But you say, a man can leave his money to his children? He can, if he
dares. But a large fortune, in anticipation, has ruined more sons
than it has ever helped. If a young man has so much money coming to
him that he knows he will never have to work, the chances are that it
will sap his energy, even if it does not undermine his character, and
leave him a curse rather than a blessing to those who brought him
into the world. And it is scarcely safer to leave the money to a
daughter. For if a young woman has a prospective inheritance so
large that, when a young man calls upon her, she can not tell whether
he is calling upon her or her father, it is embarrassing--especially
so if she finds after marriage that he married the wrong member of
the family. And, I may add, that the daughters of the very rich are
usually hedged about by a social environment which prevents their
making the acquaintance of the best young men. The men who,
twenty-five years from now, will be the leaders in business, in
society, in government, and in the church, are not the pampered sons
of the rich, but the young men who, with good health and good
habits, with high ideals and strong ambition, are, under the spur of
necessity, laying the foundation for future achievements, and these
young men do not have a chance to become acquainted with the
daughters of the very rich. Even if they did know them they might
hesitate to enter upon the scale of expenditure to which these
daughters are accustomed.
I have spoken at length in regard to these limitations, altho we all
know of them or should. The ministers tell us about these things
Sunday after Sunday, or should, and yet we find men chasing the
almighty dollar until they fall exhausted into the grave. A few
years ago I read a sermon by Dr. Talmage on this subject; he said a
man who wore himself out getting money that he did not need would
finally drop dead, and that his pastor would tell a group of
sorrowing friends that, by a mysterious dispensation of Providence,
the good man had been cut off in his prime. Dr. Talmage said that
Providence had nothing to do with it, and that the minister ought to
tell the truth about it and say that the man had been kicked to death
by the golden calf.
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