The psycho-analytic study of the familyFlugel, J. C. (John Carl)
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The psycho-analytic study of the family
Flugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Families; Marriage; Parent and child; Psychoanalysis
Moreover, in virtue of his marriage with the queen, Claudius now really
stands in the old king's place; in killing him, therefore, Hamlet is to
his own unconscious mind becoming guilty of the very crime of Œdipus which
had tempted him before his father's death; hence the resistance to the
consummation of the act which hatred of the interloper prompts him to
perform.
[Sidenote: The wicked step-mother in fairy tales]
In the case of a girl, corresponding feelings may be called up towards
her step-mother on the re-marriage of her father--feelings which have
found expression in the very numerous and familiar myths and fairy tales
(such as those of Cinderella, Snow White, Mother Holle), of the wicked
step-mother who kills, beats, neglects, falsely accuses, drives out or
otherwise ill-treats her step-daughter[113]. Here the feelings of the
girl, like those of the boy under similar circumstances, are given free
vent towards the step-mother, where they were formerly inhibited by
emotions of an opposite character (or at least repressed by considerations
of general or traditional morality) in the case of the girl's true mother;
the step-mother thus serving as an object capable at once of arousing,
and of becoming the recipient of, hostile and jealous feelings, which had
hitherto successfully been held in check.
[Sidenote: The attitude of step-parents towards their step-children]
These feelings of hostility on the part of children to their step-parents
are of course bound to call up some degree of reciprocal feeling on the
part of the step-parents themselves. The feelings thus aroused, however,
are often reinforced by more direct causes of hostility, such as are
liable to affect in any case the attitude of parent towards child (_Cp._
Ch. XVI). Here, however, the absence of the real bond of parenthood,
with its accompanying incentives to tender feeling, may easily cause
the hostile tendencies to meet with less resistance than usual so that
genuinely cruel or neglectful behaviour is more likely to occur.
[Sidenote: The displacement of love on to step-parents]
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