The psycho-analytic study of the familyFlugel, J. C. (John Carl)
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The psycho-analytic study of the family
Flugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Families; Marriage; Parent and child; Psychoanalysis
[Footnote 131: For an interesting and suggestive study of the influence of
a high degree of this dissociation upon married life and upon the general
attitude towards questions of sex and of morality, the reader is referred
to J. D. Beresford's novel "God's Counterpoint".]
[Footnote 132: If this is so (and indeed perhaps in any case), it is
evident that the difference in question must be taken into consideration
in dealing with such questions as those affecting the pre-marital chastity
or unchastity of men, the "double moral standard" in sexual matters _etc._]
[Footnote 133: Among the causes of the greater condemnation of
masturbation in men one of great importance consists in the fear of
castration which--as result of threats by parents and nurses and
otherwise--frequently becomes intimately associated with the onanistic
act. Closely connected with this is the fact that the significance and
consequences of masturbation are more obvious in the male than in the
female--the emission of semen and the lassitude that follows this being
very liable to produce a sense of loss and injury, thus easily arousing or
reinforcing the fears connected with the ideas of castration. Perhaps a
further factor of a more general nature is played by the greater freedom
of narcissistic impulses in women (_Cp._ Freud, "Zur Einführung des
Narzißmus," _Jahrbuch für Psychoanalyse_, VI. I.). The relatively greater
persistence of infantile self-love shows itself clearly in the greater
freedom of the milder manifestations of homosexuality in women (the
homosexual partner being a projection of the lover's self; _Cp._ above p.
103) and may very well also be the cause of women's more natural attitude
to masturbation as a form of auto-erotic gratification.]
[Footnote 134: _Cp._ Ernest Jones, "Papers on Psycho-Analysis" 558, the
whole chapter being important in this connection.]
[Footnote 135: Since there is a very general tendency for physical
superiority in men to arouse sexual feelings in the woman, whereas
inferiority in men as regards size, strength, health, _etc._, is apt to
arouse a sympathetic, motherly affection in the woman.]
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