The psycho-analytic study of the familyFlugel, J. C. (John Carl)
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The psycho-analytic study of the family
Flugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Families; Marriage; Parent and child; Psychoanalysis
[Footnote 263: That some such factors as these are probably really
operative in addition to the more specific sexual inhibitions that compose
the incest barrier proper, is shown by a consideration of cases in which
no such specific inhibition exists, _e. g._ that of husband and wife.
In spite of the fact that sexual relations between husband and wife are
not only permitted but enjoined and that mutual sexual attractiveness
has usually played some considerable part in bringing about the union,
there can be little doubt that in very many cases a husband and wife,
after a certain period of married life, tend to find--superficially at
any rate--greater sexual attractiveness in strangers than in one another.
The reasons for this (in the absence of any other adequate cause) are
often fairly clearly of the kind described--first, the fact that their
associations with one another are largely connected with the "humdrum"
activities of everyday life in which non-sexual instincts are principally
concerned (whereas with strangers the sexual feelings may constitute the
predominant, or perhaps the only, bond); secondly the fact that through
the very intimacy of their connection there are (as in the case of blood
relatives) a number of matters as regards which the husband and wife are
competitors or have conflicting interests, thus leading to a certain
degree of (usually more or less repressed) hostility on either side.]
[Footnote 264: The reasons for the existence of a general sexual
repression, over and above the incest inhibition, and the psychological
mechanisms by which this repression is brought about, form a vast and
highly important theme on which there exists at present but little
general agreement and which, being only indirectly connected with our
subject, need fortunately not be entered into here. It is perhaps worth
while to point out however in passing, that some of the factors which
are responsible for the more general sexual repression are, in all
probability, similar to those which we have considered in connection with
the production of incest inhibition. Thus there would seem to exist an
antagonism between a highly developed and intensive sexuality and those
wider social bonds in virtue of which alone the larger human communities
are possible. It is on the basis of the manifestations of this antagonism
that some writers--as already mentioned--hold that the chief motive forces
which are active in sexual repression are to be found in the instincts
of the herd. Still more marked perhaps is the antagonism between sex and
individuation. It has long been recognised, and modern psychological
researches have pretty definitely proved, that many of the more complex
desires and activities of the individual--desires and activities upon
which human culture ultimately depends--are built up upon sublimations
of the sexual tendencies. All these sublimations involve a deflection of
sexual energy from its original and primitive direction--a deflection
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