The psycho-analytic study of the familyFlugel, J. C. (John Carl)
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The psycho-analytic study of the family
Flugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Families; Marriage; Parent and child; Psychoanalysis
In so far as, under the force of the repression, these tendencies do
not suffer some clearly marked modification or displacement as regards
their object (and thus fall within our second class of abnormalities),
the conflict to which their continued existence gives rise is apt to
manifest itself most prominently in one or more of the negative forms
characteristic of repression, rather than in any positive form indicative
of the original nature of the repressed desire[32]. Thus a fixation (as
it is now usually called) of the love impulses on the parent of the
opposite sex may betray itself, on the positive side, in a relatively
sublimated and asexual manner only--as in a more than usual degree of
friendly affection, esteem or veneration for, or in an abnormal degree of
dependence on, the parent in question; combined perhaps with an unusually
strong desire for the presence of the loved parent, and a feeling of
contentment with life in the parent's home that leads to a relative
want of interest in persons and things outside it, and a liability to
home-sickness if compelled to be away from home or parent[33]. The sexual
nature of the (unconscious) source of this attitude reveals itself
however unmistakably in the negative aspects of the conflict to which
it gives rise. Thus a parent fixation of this kind may make itself felt
negatively in an inability to direct love freely and fully upon any
other person of the same sex as the loved parent. The normal process
of falling in love in adolescence or early maturity may fail to take
place; the persons concerned are content to live quietly at home with
their parents; if sexual relations are attempted, psychic impotence or
frigidity--relative or absolute--may result[34]; marriage will frequently
be avoided, or will be entered into from motives other than those of real
affection[35]--sometimes from the very need to escape from an unconscious
incestuous desire.
[Sidenote: Conflict and Compromise]
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