The psycho-analytic study of the familyFlugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Science
The psycho-analytic study of the family
Flugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Families; Marriage; Parent and child; Psychoanalysis
The directly Sexual feeling thus attaching to these phantasies is in
many cases powerfully reinforced by the curiosity which is experienced
by children in relation to the processes of conception, gestation and
birth. Most children would seem to possess at an early age a very lively
interest in all matters directly or indirectly connected with the
reproductive function. The question "Where do babies come from?" is one
of the most absorbing of all the problems of our early years; one which,
in its more sublimated forms, may lay the foundation of that restless
desire to know the causes and origins of things, which is the driving
force of much that is best in science and philosophy; and one for which,
in infancy and childhood, a solution is sought in many of the childish
theories of reproduction which have recently attracted the attention of
psycho-analysts[67].
[Sidenote: Children's questions]
[Sidenote: The forbidden question in myth and legend]
Curiosity of this kind is also found to underlie much of that desire for
knowledge which manifests itself in the incessant asking of questions
so characteristic of children at a certain age. Where this is the case,
the actual questions asked are often only substitutes for the real
problem which so insistently demands solution--the problem of the origin
of men--and are shown to be of little importance in themselves by the
listless and uninterested way in which the child frequently receives the
answers that are given him, making them, as he does only too often, the
starting point for fresh questions, the answers to which prove in their
turn to be equally unsatisfying. In all such questioning the true nature
of the real problem is for the most part kept below the threshold of
consciousness, through the operation of repressive influences, originating
perhaps to some extent in the natural course of development of the child's
own mind, but probably to a greater degree due to the attitude of his
adult environment, which, directly or by implication, has taught the child
to regard such questions as taboo. This notion of the question which is
forbidden but which nevertheless imperiously demands an answer is one that
is of frequent occurrence in myth and legend, the forbidden question often
disclosing itself as one which has reference to the birthplace, parentage
or birth of the hero (as for instance in the Lohengrin legend) or the
origin and nature of man in general (as in the case of Œdipus)[68].
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