We all know the blessing of sleep, but it is hard to show the sufferer
that wakefulness is useful.
Wakefulness always has some cause, and, if we truly wish to be cured
of it, it will be well to seek the cause rather than to grumble at the
wakefulness itself. It is not enough to know what is the matter, we
must find out why it is the matter. To find the cause of any condition
simplifies matters; it makes the course we must follow clearer. If the
cause can be removed, we should bend all our energies to removing it;
to paraphrase Stephen Pearl Andrews’ saying—we are not to be subject
to circumstances, but rather to make ourselves center-stances. But,
if the matter be something over which we have no control, there are
two courses open to us: the first is to accept the condition and adapt
ourselves to it; the second is to devise some method by which we may
gain control over it.
A childish story[6] will illustrate this:
[6] Republished by permission of the Century Company.
Once there was a squirrel that did not like its home, and it used to
scold and find fault with everything. Its papa squirrel had long gray
whiskers, so he was wise. He said to the squirrel: “My dear, as you
do not like your home, there are three sensible things you could do:
Leave it,
or Change it,
or Suit yourself to it.
Any one of these would help you in your trouble.” But the little
squirrel said, “Oh! I do not want to do any of those; I had rather
sit on the branch of a tree and scold.” “Well,” said the papa
squirrel, “if you must do that, whenever you want to scold, just go
out on a branch and scold away at someone you do not know.” The little
squirrel blushed so much that he became a red squirrel, and you will
notice that to this day red squirrels do just that thing.
Whatever course we pursue, we find something to do in connection with
the underlying principle or cause; this _doing_ prevents us from
wasting energy and patience upon mere effects. That is an advantage,
for any action relieves mental pain, and often relieves physical pain,
too. The victim writhes not only in its effort to escape, but in the
effort to express its feeling, to respond to the excited nerves, just
as we dance about or hop up and down when we hit our finger with the
hammer. We often hear people deplore that their suffering is increased
because they can do nothing to remedy the trouble. We frequently
exclaim, “It would be easier to bear, if only I could _do_ something.”
A knowledge of what to do and how to do it always helps toward peace of
mind.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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