The Real Shelley. New Views of the Poet's Life. Vol. 2 (of 2) — John Shaqi
The Real Shelley. New Views of the Poet's Life. Vol. 2 (of 2)Jeaffreson, John Cordy
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The Real Shelley. New Views of the Poet's Life. Vol. 2 (of 2)
Jeaffreson, John Cordy
Poets, English -- 19th century -- Biography; Shelley, Percy Bysshe, 1792-1822
_Rights of Woman_! No wonder that simple English ladies spoke of her
bitterly, as the arch-libeller of their sex; spoke of her with mingled
terror, disgust, and indignation! No wonder that honest English gentlemen
sided cordially with these simple English ladies.
Some of the coarseness of this censor of her sex may, no doubt, be
regarded as a mere affair of superficial style, and was referable to the
tone of the coteries in which she had been living for several years:--the
coteries of Philosophic Radicalism, where speech was even more free than
thought. But some of Mary Wollstonecraft’s coarseness was due to natural
want of refinement and a vein of vulgarity that, instead of playing only
on the surface of her life, had its source in the depths of her soul. Her
view of men and their feelings was as sordid as her view of women and
their failings. Her conception of love as a force in human affairs would
have discredited a chambermaid. Having its source in sensation, the
tenderest and most delicate passion rose and fell with the variations of
bodily desire. The result of purely physical causes, it waxed and waned
with increase and decrease of nervous excitement. According to Miss
Wollstonecraft’s view of the relations of the sexes, wives were so many
toys preserved for the diversion of the men who had appropriated them for
their enjoyment, in compliance with a nervous disposition that, always
more or less transient, was certain to perish in no long time. From its
nature the sexual affection was the most inconstant and fickle of human
forces. On marrying, every woman is admonished to anticipate the
inevitable moment when her husband’s tenderness will cease, her power of
pleasing come to end,--the time when, on discovering her inability to
charm her proprietor any longer, she will, most likely, survive her desire
and desist from her efforts to please him. ‘When the husband,’ says Mary
Wollstonecraft, ‘ceases to be a lover--and the time will inevitably
come--her desire’ (_i.e._ the young wife’s desire) ‘will grow languid, or
become a spring of bitterness; and love, perhaps, the most evanescent of
all passions, will give place to jealousy or vanity,’ On a later page of
her treatise, she says in the same hopeless strain, ‘Love, from its very
nature, must be transitory.... The most holy band of society is
friendship. It has been well said, by a shrewd satirist, that “rare as
love is, true friendship is still rarer.”’ Provided with the higher
knowledge, brighter cleverness, finer tact, coming to her from higher
education, a woman would be able to hold her husband’s love for the
longest possible period, and in some cases be able to retain his
friendship after he has ceased to love her. In all cases, where the former
lover declines to sink in the sober friend, the woman of higher education
would be able to make herself fairly comfortable, without either his love
or his friendship. It was mainly on these grounds, and for these
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