The schoolmaster's trunk, containing papers on home-life in TweenitDiaz, Abby Morton
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The schoolmaster's trunk, containing papers on home-life in Tweenit
Diaz, Abby Morton
Country life -- Juvenile fiction
“My dear Mr. McKimber, society demands so much! Why, I scarcely have an
hour to call my own!”
And I saw that it was so,--saw that what with shopping, dressing,
dinner-parties, evening-parties, callers, and calling, the “chief duty”
stood a small chance.
Among all classes, then,--among the wealthy, the comfortably off,
and the uncomfortably off,--children are wronged. They are petted,
pampered, furbelowed, amused, but still wronged: they are defrauded of
their mothers. This is a broad statement; and, of course, there are
exceptions. I know myself some thoughtful, careful, prayerful mothers,
who understand their mission, and try to fulfil it. But, as a rule, the
mission is not recognized. As a rule, children are shoved aside. And
this is done in many cases deliberately. Said one of the sewing-circle
members, “It won’t do to notice your children too much: if you do, you
can’t turn ’em off.”
Yes, “Turn ’em off,” is the cry. And turned off they are,--some for
“society,” some for “flounces,” some for “lemon-pies.”
How, then, and where, then, is my theory to work? for mothers,
exceptions excepted, do not even feel that boy-and-girl-training is
their first duty. And, allowing they could be convinced of this, then
comes the question of time. How shall they find time to attend to
it? which is rather an odd question, as it might be supposed that
one’s first duty would have the first claim. Ah, well! it is almost
a hopeless case. The next generation will not be a good generation,
because it will not be started rightly; and it will not be started
rightly, because mothers are not attending to their business; and
mothers are not attending to their business, because they “have no
time,” and because they are not aware that it is their business.
Why do not philanthropists organize a society for the enlightenment of
mothers? That is what the country needs. And when such a society shall
have been organized, and have accomplished its purpose, another must
be started, the object of which shall be to furnish mothers with time:
not by putting more hours into the day, or more days into the week, but
by an easy process which I have in my mind, and which I am willing to
divulge. Its name begins with S. I will note down here that the name
begins with S.
There is a class of mothers not mentioned in these remarks, who
make themselves slaves to their children by trying to gratify all
their whims and wishes. This class need enlightenment as much as any
other, for the kind of attention which children shall receive is a
consideration of the utmost importance.
X.
A LOOK AHEAD.
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