The Sexes in Science and History: An inquiry into the dogma of woman's inferiority to manGamble, Eliza Burt
Philosophy
The Sexes in Science and History: An inquiry into the dogma of woman's inferiority to man
Gamble, Eliza Burt
Sex; Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The peoples among which actual capture is at present practised, and
those among which wives are procured by sale or contract, represent two
different stages in the development of the institution of marriage, and
it is owing to this fact that the symbols used among the latter may be
traced to the realities in which they originated.
Of the Bedouins of Mt. Sinai, Burckhardt says that marriage is a
matter of sale and purchase, in which the inclination of the girl is
disregarded.
The young maid comes home in the evening with the cattle. At a short
distance from the camp she is met by the future spouse and a couple
of his young friends, and carried off by force to her father’s tent.
If she entertains any suspicion of their designs she defends herself
with stones, and often inflicts wounds on the young men, even though
she does not dislike the lover, for, according to custom, the more she
struggles, bites, kicks, cries, and shrieks, the more she is applauded
ever after by her own companions.[115]
[115] Quoted by E. J. Wood, _The Wedding Day_, etc., p. 60.
In reference to the Mezeyne Arabs the same writer observes that a
similar custom prevailed within the limits of the Sinai Peninsula, but
not among the other tribes of that province.
A girl having been wrapped in the Abba at night, is permitted to
escape from her tent, and fly into the neighbouring mountains.
The bridegroom goes in search of her next day, and remains often
many days before he can find her out, while her female friends are
apprised of her hiding-place, and furnish her with provisions. If
the husband finds her at last (which is sooner or later, according to
the impression that he has made upon the girl’s heart), he is bound
to consummate the marriage in the open country, and to pass the night
with her in the mountains. The next morning the bride goes home to her
tent, that she may have some food; but again runs away in the evening
and repeats these flights several times, till she finally returns to
her tent. She does not go to live in her husband’s tent until she is
far advanced in pregnancy; if she does not become pregnant, she may
not join her husband till a full year from the wedding-day.[116]
[116] Quoted by E. J. Wood, _The Wedding Day_, etc., p. 60.
Cranz says that in Greenland “some females, when a husband is proposed
to them will fall into a swoon, elope to a desert place, or cut off
their hair.... In the latter case they are seldom troubled with further
addresses.” The refractory bride is dragged
forcibly into her suitor’s house, where she sits for several days
disconsolate, with dishevelled hair, and refuses nourishment. When
friendly exhortations are unavailing, she is compelled by force and
even with blows to receive her husband. Should she elope, she is
brought back and treated more harshly than before.[117]
[117] _History of Greenland_, vol. i., p. 146.
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