The Sexual Life of Our Time in Its Relations to Modern Civilization: Translated from the Sixth German EditionBloch, Iwan
Philosophy
The Sexual Life of Our Time in Its Relations to Modern Civilization: Translated from the Sixth German Edition
Bloch, Iwan
Sex; Sexual ethics
Major W., a distinguished officer, a man of honour in every respect,
had in youth married a chambermaid, naturally, as one can imagine,
from pure inclination. But the marriage remained barren, because the
wife suffered from organic troubles; and soon her sexual powers were
completely extinguished. Whilst the husband still remained virile, the
wife was already an old woman, suffering from spasmodic and other
affections, surrounded always by medicine-bottles and medical
appliances, always ill-humoured and nagging, a true torment for the
good-natured and amiable husband. The latter bears with Christian
patience and inexhaustible love the ill-humour of his wife; but Nature
is less pliable than his kind heart: his conjugal tenderness
diminishes, and his ardent temperament seeks other outlets for the
gratification of his natural sexual desires. The sick wife notices
this coolness, and revenges herself by a refined cruelty. She knows
that sulkiness on her part makes him ill and miserable; she therefore
afflicts him with coldness of manner, and by jealousy and ill-temper
she makes his life a hell. There occur horrible scenes of domestic
brawling, which more than once have led the husband to attempt to end
his troubles by suicide. He suffers in a threefold fashion: by the
continued irritation of his healthy natural impulse, by the illnesses
he contracts in gratifying that impulse, and by the sorrows of his
really loved wife. He imposes upon himself a voluntary celibacy in
order that he may not make her ill; but this sacrifice does not
suffice, it does not make his wife gentler towards him. She demands
from him, tacitly, all the ardency of the bridegroom; there is no
rescue possible from this inferno. The husband surrenders himself to a
quiet despair. He is faithful in his vocation; he lives only for the
wife, who torments him continually. The neighbours see a very
unedifying example of an extremely unhappy marriage, originally
contracted as a pure love match, and none the less entailing martyrdom
alike on husband and wife.
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