The southern literary messenger, Vol. II., No. 7, June, 1836Various
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The southern literary messenger, Vol. II., No. 7, June, 1836
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{437} Although the obstacles to the progress of correct views on the
subject of education, as well as to the adoption of the best means for
promoting this all-important object, be too numerous easily to
determine which are the most pre-eminently mischievous, I shall begin
with those which appear to constitute the very “head and front of the
offending.” These are created under the parental roof itself, where
the first elements of education are almost always acquired, and where
it is most obvious that _if any but good seed are sown_, the most
precious part of the child's subsequent existence must be spent rather
in the toilsome, painful business of extirpating weeds, than of
bringing to perfection such plants as yield the wholesome bread of
life. Hence, in a great measure, the little benefit, in numberless
instances, from going to school; because, the short time generally
allowed for this purpose (particularly in the case of girls) is too
often occupied solely in clearing away and rooting out from the mind
_that_ which must necessarily be removed before any useful and lasting
knowledge can well be implanted.
The first parental fault which I shall notice, is that by which
children are first affected. It begins to influence them with the
first dawnings of intellect—augments as that expands—accumulates like
compound interest, and never ceases to exert its baneful power until
fixed for life. This fault is the glaring and frequent contradictions
between parental precepts and examples, although the least experience
will suffice to convince any one who will consult it, that the latter
will forever be followed rather than the former; nor will any thing
ever check it but the fear of some very severe punishment—_the rod_
(for example) on the back of the far less guilty child, instead of the
shoulders of the parental tempter. The father or mother who calculates
on their children totally abstaining, unless by external force, from
any vicious indulgence whatever, of which they see their parents
habitually guilty, counts on a moral impossibility. As well might they
expect water not to boil when sufficient heat is long enough applied,
or dry tinder not to burn when brought in contact with fire; for these
appliances are to water and tinder what vicious parental examples will
always prove to the juvenile mind. Woe, double and triple woe, be to
those who set them, for they incur the most awfully dangerous
responsibility of rendering their children utterly worthless! I
confidently appeal, as in a former lecture, to the experience of every
one who now hears me, and I beseech them to ask themselves how many
drinking, gambling, profane, lazy, idle fathers have they ever known
whose sons were exempt from these vices? How many have they ever known
who habitually gave way to bursts of anger and wrath—to a rude,
dictatorial, despotic, quarrelsome disposition, especially in the
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