The southern literary messenger, Vol. II., No. 7, June, 1836Various
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The southern literary messenger, Vol. II., No. 7, June, 1836
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American literature -- 19th century -- Periodicals
privacy of home, which many seem to think a suitable place for acting
as they would be ashamed or afraid to act in public, where they would
meet with somewhat more formidable checks than helpless wives and
children; how many such fathers can any recollect, whose sons did not
resemble and probably surpass them in all their worst habits? Equally
sure, too, will the daughters be to follow their mamma's goodly
examples, should _they also_ habitually display any of those faults or
vices that are calculated to sully the purity of the female character,
or in any way to degrade and render it odious. With such facts
continually before the eyes of all parents, what supreme folly and
madness—nay, what deadly guilt must be theirs, who do not avoid
setting bad examples to their children, as they would shun the utmost
extremity of misery!
Among those parental faults which soonest begin to work incalculable
mischief, is the habitual practice of talking and acting in such a
manner, in regard to the whole class of teachers, that by the time
their children are sent to school they learn to look upon the entire
tribe of schoolmasters and schoolmistresses as belonging to a class
much inferior to that of their parents, and to consider their being
placed under such supervision as a kind of purgatorial punishment. I
once knew a gentleman in whose mind these early notions had taken deep
root, who used to say, that he could never pass through a pine-wood
resembling that in which his first schoolhouse stood, without being
thrown into a cold perspiration by it. Without doubt he had been
exposed to the parental practice I am now condemning, the almost
inevitable consequence of which is, to create contempt and aversion
for teachers, reluctant obedience, distrust in their capacities to
teach, and not unfrequently open insubordination. Manners and polite
deportment are deemed quite hidden mysteries to these teachers, or
matters with which the parents never designed they should meddle—it
being frequently intimated that they never had opportunities for
acquiring the first, nor feel any interest in teaching the last,
farther than to protect themselves from injury and insult.
Awkwardness, if not rudeness also, is often deemed an almost
inseparable part of their character; and their pupils are not
unfrequently encouraged by parental smiles to laugh at and ridicule
“the poor schoolmaster or mistress,” instead of being checked by
timely reproof in all such conduct. If there happen to be the faint
semblance of a little wit or humor in these remarks, many silly
parents take the first opportunity of retailing them with evident
pleasure, even in the child's presence; and the silly delight
manifested at this supposed proof of marvellous precocity, completely
overcomes all sense of the culpability of the act, or of its very
pernicious influence on the dispositions of the child. At most it is
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