The southern literary messenger, Vol. II., No. 7, June, 1836Various
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The southern literary messenger, Vol. II., No. 7, June, 1836
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quite through their estates but a little beyond the time when they
should have been first put into possession of them, and who have lost
all respectability of character at a period when they should be only
commencing their career of active life. If these unfortunate victims
of parental folly—may I not say, wickedness—_then_ open their eyes to
their real situation, it will often be only to shut them again in
utter despair, and plunge into all the fathomless depths of
dissipation and vice, as their only refuge from the hopeless misery,
the inextricable ruin in which they too late perceive that they have
involved themselves. Hasty, inconsiderate marriages are often found to
cap the climax of all this wretchedness, by adding helpless women and
children to the number of sufferers, and thereby immeasurably
augmenting the miseries of a condition which, without _this_, would
seem to admit of scarcely any farther aggravation. A similar
catastrophe often befals our girls who have had the deadly misfortune
to be subjected to this hot-bed system. With unformed constitutions,
and still more unformed minds, they are hurried into situations where
they have to act the parts of _women_, before they are rid of the
dispositions, inclinations, and follies of _children_. They not
unfrequently marry and become mothers, while yet distant from the age
of maturity, and thus have to fulfil the all-important duty of forming
the hearts, minds, and principles of children, when, in fact, they are
little more than children themselves. Loss of life is, in many
instances, the forfeit paid for such premature marriages. But should
they escape this awful sacrifice, they rarely fail to have their
constitutions broken down, their powers of useful exertion greatly
impaired or irrevocably lost; and an early grave, often—alas! too
often, closes the heart-rending scene over these poor, unfortunate
victims of parental mismanagement, at a time when probably they would
just have reached the meridian of mature life, had they been properly
prepared for all the momentous duties of wives and mothers, before
they were compelled to fulfil them. Their helpless offspring are thus
bereft of maternal nurture, when the parent was just beginning
probably to understand what it ought to be—and how holy, how sacred
she should esteem her obligations, to fulfil it most unremittingly to
the children of her bosom. The same forcing process is then applied to
the innocent little survivors; and _they_, in their turn, are to be
married, if possible, when they should still be at school—to have the
care of children before they know how to take care of themselves—and
often to die, when they should be just beginning to live as the
mistresses of families. Boys and girls have thus to act the part of
instructers, while they themselves should yet be pupils; and the
elementary education of their offspring, which is by far the most
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