The southern literary messenger, Vol. II., No. 7, June, 1836Various
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The southern literary messenger, Vol. II., No. 7, June, 1836
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Another very general and deeply rooted fault in parents, is, the
readiness with which they believe and act upon the complaints of their
children, often without taking the smallest pains whatever to
ascertain whether these complaints may not be at least exaggerated, if
not entirely unfounded. The humorous author of Peter Plymley's letters
has said—“that a single rat in a Dutch dyke is sometimes sufficient to
flood a whole province.” The idea intended to be conveyed by this, is
eminently true, especially in relation to female seminaries, where
only one gossipping, talking girl, although free, perhaps, from
malicious intent, is quite enough to destroy an entire school. Were it
possible for teachers before hand, to know the propensities of such
little bipeds, they should exclude them as carefully as the Dutch
attempt to do the small, apparently impotent quadrupeds, that do them
so much injury. But suffer me to cite some instances to sustain my
opinion. Let us suppose, for example, that the grievance complained of
is partial treatment. To say nothing of the difficulty of proving a
negative, or of disproving, even when heard, a charge which covers so
much ground, and which is rarely suffered to reach the teacher's
ears—it is perfectly easy to demonstrate, that it _may_, and often
_will_ be made, without the shadow of truth. When to this is added,
its utter incompatibility with that portion of common sense, which all
instructers, who are not miserable drivellers, must possess, and which
they, of course, will exercise, in comparing their infinitely small
and doubtful gains, with their great and certain loss by such
injustice towards the complainants, (putting all principles of honor
and public pledges out of the question,) the accusation ought to
appear in most cases, past all rational credibility. But let us return
to the proof, that the charge of partiality _may_ and _will_ often be
made without the shadow of truth. It is a thing which deeply concerns
_all schools_, and is therefore a subject of common and vital
interest—both to them and to the public. None have so little
experience as not to know, that among the scholars of every school
there will be irregularities of conduct with corresponding
inequalities in talent, application, and acquirement, and that the old
adage, that “one man can carry a horse to water, but that four and
twenty can't make him drink,” is equally true in a figurative sense as
to children at school. Hence, some pupils go on very successfully,
without punishment of any kind, while others not unfrequently require
it in all its most effective forms. This equitable and obviously
necessary difference in treatment, between offenders and
non-offenders, is always sensibly felt by the culprits
themselves—often deeply resented; the true cause of it, rarely well
understood, and still more rarely acknowledged or explained,
especially to parents and guardians: for self-accusation is least apt
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