The southern literary messenger, Vol. II., No. 7, June, 1836Various
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The southern literary messenger, Vol. II., No. 7, June, 1836
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to be made by those who most frequently commit acts that should
produce it. Much the most common course among the violators of any
moral law or obligation whatever, whether they are children or adults,
is to seek refuge from the consciousness of one fault, in the
commission of some other—which other, generally, is, to shift the
blame, if possible, from themselves. That humble, contrite,
self-abasing spirit which caused the prodigal son to exclaim—“Father,
I have sinned against heaven and thee, and am no more worthy to be
called thy son,” is hardly to be expected, in any great degree, among
children at school: yet they _should_ possess it, before their parents
ought to rely on their competency to judge and decide in their own
cases, whether _they_ or _their teachers_ are in the wrong—cases too,
wherein it is perfectly obvious, that if the teachers are the
offending party, they must have become so in opposition to their best
interests. From the foregoing considerations, it is manifest, that
among such children at school as are justly reproved or punished for
misconduct, unjust complaints of partiality in the teachers will
frequently arise; and that these will often be too readily credited,
without any investigation, or even the slightest hint to the persons
thus secretly accused, of what has been alleged against them. In all
such cases a withdrawal of the pupils almost certainly follows,
succeeded by abuse of the schools, which often becomes the more bitter
and inveterate, from the parents themselves having an unacknowledged
conviction, that _they are the injurers_, instead of the _injured
party_. With all such persons the self-applied cure for the
mortification arising from incurable dullness, or depravity in their
children, is to slander their teachers wherever it can safely be done.
Another proper and necessary difference in the scholastic treatment of
children proceeds from difference of age. But most unluckily, it
sometimes happens, that very young little masters and misses expect to
be treated like grown up young gentlemen and ladies; and should such
very rational expectations be disappointed, as they most assuredly
should be, these premature aspirants to the privileges and immunities
of manhood and womanhood, take most grievous and unappeasable offence
at it. Heavy, but vague complaints of partial treatment follow of
course; parental tenderness is naturally excited; parental credulity
lends too easy credence to the tale of juvenile woe; and a change of
school is the frequent consequence, without the really innocent
teachers even suspecting that any such cause could possibly have
produced it.
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