The Southern Literary Messenger, Vol. II., No. 8, July, 1836Various
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The Southern Literary Messenger, Vol. II., No. 8, July, 1836
Various
American literature -- 19th century -- Periodicals
many schools have we, where this is done? How many are there wherein
not even _a pretence_ is made of either public or private worship—of
either moral or religious instruction? Numerous, deplorably numerous
are the instances in which the poor pupils are all left to seek God or
not, according to their own fancies; and where the miserable pretext
for such criminal neglect is, that the Liberals of the present times,
than whom, by the way, there are no greater bigots upon earth—bigots I
mean in _unbelief_—would probably deem it an improper interference
with the religious creeds of the scholars, if one word were ever
uttered about religion at all. Every thing of the kind they denounce
as sectarian—even Christianity itself; as if there was not just as
much sectarianism in infidelity, as among any sect of Christians to be
found in the world. Nay more, as if the dangers of error in either
party were not most fearfully greater on their side than on the side
of the Christians.
The foregoing faults are not confined to boy schools; but too often
appear in female schools also. In regard to these last, there is one
peculiar fault committed by {484} many teachers which cannot be too
much exposed. If much retirement be essential to successful study,
nothing can well be more preposterous, than frequently to give girls
the choice between the attractions of company and those of their
schoolrooms: for not one in a hundred will then choose the latter. The
great mischief of this indulgence is, that not only their places of
study, but the studies themselves are brought into continual danger of
becoming both irksome and disgusting to them. If it be said that they
must go into company to form their manners, the answer is, that even
manners may be too dearly bought. But admitting their high value, the
teachers should be the exemplars of their pupils in _this_ as in other
matters, or they are not entirely fit for their office. It may also be
added, that manners formed by much company-keeping are not such as
would be most sought after in a wife—the destined head, and greatest
ornament of a domestic circle: for if these manners have become the
subject of much admiration, the possessor is rarely ever known to be
content, unless she can have many other spectators besides her husband
and family to witness their display. Wonderful indeed, would it be, if
women who were trained one half their lives to acquire some
accomplishment for the sake of having it admired, should be perfectly
satisfied to spend the other half with only a husband, and now and
then a relation or two to act the part of admirers. I will not deny
that what are called “elegant manners,” can rarely be acquired without
mixing much with good society. It is also admitted that there is
nothing in their acquirement at all incompatible with the attainment
of all other good qualities or acquisitions; and that many of the most
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