The Southern Literary Messenger, Vol. II., No. 8, July, 1836Various
General
The Southern Literary Messenger, Vol. II., No. 8, July, 1836
Various
American literature -- 19th century -- Periodicals
agreeable and estimable women are to be found among those who have
seen most of the world. But are these most likely to be happy in the
retirement of that domestic life, which is the destiny of ninety nine
women in a hundred? _If they are not_, then far too much has been
sacrificed for “elegant manners.” _If they are_, should we not see
many more of them to unsettle our faith in the truth of the general
rule, that all who are destined to spend the longest portion of their
existence in private life, should necessarily be so educated, as to
acquire a decided preference for it, or we do them a great and
irreparable injury by giving them a different taste? That such
education is altogether incompatible with that which requires much
going into company, as one of its essential parts, seems to me as
clear as the light of a meridian sun in a cloudless day. It is
scarcely in human nature for young ladies who have reigned as the
belles of society, as idols in public, to become exemplary, happy
matrons in private life. The two characters are so entirely unlike,
their tastes, their highest gratifications so entirely dissimilar,
that the same persons can rarely, if ever, fill both characters. _When
they do they are moral wonders._ The natural modesty of the sex, which
always inclines them to shun rather than to seek general admiration;
and consequently to prefer home, with all its tranquil pleasures, and
rational enjoyments, to the bustle, the notoriety and highly exciting
gratifications of the world, will not be altogether subdued in every
case, by what is called a fashionable education; but assuredly, there
is nothing in any part of the whole process calculated to give this
greatest charm of the female character its proper culture and highest
embellishment. This embellishment is _piety_ towards God, and active
benevolence towards the whole human race. Let me not be
misunderstood—let me never be deemed so illiberal, so inexperienced,
as to believe that no ladies fashionably educated, can be pious or
benevolent, or happy in private life; _no, far from it;_ but I do
assert that the whole tendency of fashionable education is to prevent
their being either. It is, in truth, as little suited to the things of
time, as to those of eternity. A very brief argument, I think, will
prove this assertion to be true.
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