The steps of life: further essays on happinessHilty, Karl
Philosophy
The steps of life: further essays on happiness
Hilty, Karl
Conduct of life; Happiness
2. An external, but also very easily recognizable and characteristic
mark of culture is the possession or absence of books; especially with
persons who have the most ample means of procuring them. A fine lady
who reads a soiled volume from a lending library you may safely set
down as but half-cultured at best, and if she slips an embroidered
cover over the volume, it does not remedy the matter; it only shows
that she is conscious of her fault. An elegant home in which but a
dozen books stand unread on an ornamental whatnot you may quietly
regard as uncultured, with all its inmates; especially if, as usual,
the books are only novels.
Much reading still remains, in our day as always, a necessity of
general culture. Of a thoroughly cultured man one can properly require
that in the course of a moderately long life he shall have read all
of the very best in literature, and shall have gained, besides, a
tolerably general and correct idea of all the branches of human
knowledge, so that “nothing of human is to him quite alien.”
But if you ask how one can get time for this, outside of one’s business
or occupation, the answer is this: Break away from all unnecessary
things, from the hotel, from societies, clubs, and social pleasures,
from the useless reading of a great portion of the newspapers, from the
theatre, where you learn little that is worth knowing in these days,
from the too frequent concerts, from skating for whole afternoons, and
from much else besides that every one can easily charge against himself
as his special manner of squandering time. One can not be very cultured
and at the same time enjoy all the possible pleasures going.
But, if necessary, you may even break away somewhat from business. That
pays, and you will soon see what a difference there is, even as regards
business success, between a cultured merchant and a merely clever
manager.
3. A further sign of defective culture is a loud, rude nature: talking
very loud, in public localities, in cars, in restaurants, etc.;
acting as if one were the only person there; and conducting oneself
discourteously in places where many men gather. Our age is less
cultured in this respect than some earlier ones have been.
On the same footing stands everything that savors of advertising and
boasting, all showy pretence and braggadocio. A merchant, for example,
who greatly exaggerates the importance of his business, or puts very
boastful advertisements in the papers; or a lady who wears a silk dress
without quite immaculate undergarments--those surely you would not take
for people of sufficient culture.
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