The Stuff of Manhood: Some Needed Notes in American CharacterSpeer, Robert E. (Robert Elliott)
Philosophy
The Stuff of Manhood: Some Needed Notes in American Character
Speer, Robert E. (Robert Elliott)
Character; Christian life; Conduct of life; Moral education
Well, that was the way Adonijah was brought up. His father was rich.
The boy had his own establishment, his own horses, his own retinue of
attendants, and round about him, as about any oriental king’s son,
there would be the usual crowd of flatterers and sycophants. There was
no will or desire that he had not the means to gratify, and his father
let him have his way.
Further, he was the younger brother of Absalom, and the ancient record
says that they were handsome and popular boys. They had a way that
carried along those who came in touch with them, and as the king’s
sons, and the leading young men of the city, we have no difficulty in
understanding the atmosphere in which they lived and the conditions
within which they grew.
It must be confessed that this was the easy way of going about the
matter. It is far easier to let a child have its own way than to
endeavour by wisdom and patience and strength, to study and decide what
is best for the child and without hurting the child’s will, to guide it
into the better way. It was far less care to David to let Absalom and
Adonijah go than it would have been to take these high-strung sons of
his in hand and endeavour to break them to discipline and truth, and to
send them out into life real men of power. It was much easier never to
call them and to say, “Boys, why did you do this?” Much easier never
to lay any authority or guidance upon them from without, much easier,
especially for a man like David. He had grown up on a farm, with all
the hardship and frugality of farm life, with no privileges as a lad,
and now that he was the king of his nation, he was able to do anything
whatever for his sons. It was difficult to refuse them the things he
had never had. Easily and indulgently――for he was a man of kindly heart
all his days――he found it simpler not to lay hard restraints upon his
boys when he could give them their own way.
And, of course, this is the easier way of self-education too. For a
man to love himself so much that he never thinks of his neighbours, to
blind his eyes so completely to consequences that he can live for the
passing moment,――this is a very easy philosophy, and the man or the
woman who is able to practice it will seem, for a while, to live in
the sunshine, a fine butterfly, smooth-going life. All this is easier
than to say, not, What is my impulse? but, What ought I? not, What do
I like? but, What is best for all the world? not, What is the easy
way? but, What is the hard way over which the feet go that carry the
burdens of mankind, that bear the load of the world?
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