The Sultan and His PeopleOscanyan, C. (Christopher)
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The Sultan and His People
Oscanyan, C. (Christopher)
Turkey -- Description and travel; Turkey -- Social life and customs
The bride, muffled and tinselled, is conducted to a carpet in the
middle of the saloon, where she is placed opposite to the chosen
bridegroom. Their right hands are joined by the officiating priest, and
they are severally demanded whether they will "love, cherish, and honor
each other." The man is also asked, as he stands opposite to this mass
of shawls and tinsel, "will you take this girl, whether she be lame, or
deaf, or humped, or blind," to which he responds with due resignation,
"even so I will take her." A silken cord, twisted of two colors, is
now tied round the head of each, and after a long service, reading of
prayers and chanting, the happy pair are pronounced man and wife! The
bride, over whose varying emotions during the interesting ceremonies
an impenetrable veil was suspended, is now led by two attendants to
a corner of the sofa, where she is temporarily enthroned on a cushion.
The propitious moment has at last arrived, and the legalized husband
may ascertain for himself the measure of charms to which he is
allied. While the agitated maiden sits, oppressed by shawls and
tinsel, and internal anxiety as to the effect she may produce upon
her future lord, he slowly approaches, pale and tottering--for he
has sworn to have her, blind or hump-backed. With such alternatives,
even a moderate share of good-looks, or the mere absence of actual
deformity, would almost constitute beauty.
The attendant bridemaids exultingly raise the veil, and the new husband
ventures to take one look of love and admiration, in return for which
he places a valuable ring on her finger, and slowly retreats to muse
upon his fate, which is not often so deplorable, for the Armenian
girls are generally pretty. At all events, he submits with the best
grace, for, unlike his Mohammedan compatriots, he has no retrieve or
door of escape, but must abide by his bargain "till death us do part."
The veil is again dropped, and the bride left to her own meditations.
She receives presents from all the guests, so that the tickets of
admission to an Armenian wedding are no trivial affairs to one's
pockets.
Three days after the ceremony, the newly married couple are at length
left to a better acquaintance, unmolested by veils or spectators.
The Sunday following, the bridegroom proceeds to his father-in-law's
house, to acknowledge his gratitude for the possession of such a
charming treasure, etc., all which is expressed by the ceremony of
kissing the hands of the parents of the maiden, and this Sunday is
called, par excellence, the "Kissing Sunday."
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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