The Sultan and His PeopleOscanyan, C. (Christopher)
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The Sultan and His People
Oscanyan, C. (Christopher)
Turkey -- Description and travel; Turkey -- Social life and customs
It was the practice of the Arabs to have eight or ten wives, whom they
were seldom able to maintain. Mohammed, wishing to remedy this evil,
and not altogether to abolish ancient usages, limited the number--"Take
in marriage of such women as please you, two, or three or four, and
not more. But if ye fear that ye cannot act equitably to so many,
marry only one, or the slaves which ye shall have acquired." They were
allowed to marry a greater number of slaves, as their dowry was much
smaller, and they were maintained in a very different style from the
free women.
As the Osmanlis have a remarkable love of offspring, it often happens
that a man having had no children by a wife, and unwilling to divorce
her, which is considered discreditable, takes a second one in imitation
of Abraham and Jacob and many other patriarchs of old, whose practices
were but the type of the habits of all Oriental people, even those of
the present day. But such a step being often the source of domestic
difficulty, the substitution of a slave in the place of a second wife
is generally preferred--and such slaves are retained in the harem
with the appellation of Odaluk or handmaid, like Hagar, Bilhah, and
Zilpah. When these Odaluks become mothers, by right of their maternity,
they acquire their freedom and are considered second wives.
A man may, however, be induced to contract a second marriage either
from mercenary or ambitious motives.
When circumstances or selfish inclinations induce the Mussulmans to
have several wives, they are obliged to assign to each one private
apartments and attendants. These ladies, although often living under
the same roof, visit each other with all the etiquette of perfect
strangers, and require an expenditure for retinue and accommodations,
which can only be sustained by wealth.
Besides all partiality being out of the question, there is great cause
for jealousy among the different members of such establishments--and
the less favored being ever ready for intrigue, conspire to render
the husband most miserable and the sanctuary a perfect bedlam, and
the ambition of a second wife sometimes can only be satisfied by the
sacrifice of her rival.
Fethi Ahmed Pasha was so favored by the sultan that his majesty
bestowed his sister upon him in marriage. Notwithstanding this alliance
with royalty, the wife and children of his humbler fortunes retained
their place in his memory; but he could only visit them in secret.
The author has, on several occasions, assisted to his incognito, as
he left his state barge and proceeded en bourgeois in a small cayik,
to visit the house of his affections.
There is, therefore, every reason to believe that our Mussulman
friends will soon come to the conclusion, that,
"Polygamy may well be held in dread,
Not only as a sin, but as a bore:"
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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