The Superstition of DivorceChesterton, G. K. (Gilbert Keith)
Religion
The Superstition of Divorce
Chesterton, G. K. (Gilbert Keith)
Divorce
cap; or if we could stand a financier in his own corner.
Of course this opinion is rare, and reactionary--whatever that may mean.
Modern education is founded on the principle that a parent is more
likely to be cruel than anybody else. It passes over the obvious fact
that he is _less_ likely to be cruel than anybody else. Anybody may
happen to be cruel; but the first chances of cruelty come with the whole
colourless and indifferent crowd of total strangers and mechanical
mercenaries, whom it is now the custom to call in as infallible agents
of improvement; policemen, doctors, detectives, inspectors, instructors,
and so on. They are automatically given arbitrary power because there
are here and there such things as criminal parents; as if there were no
such things as criminal doctors or criminal school-masters. A mother is
not always judicious about her child’s diet; so it is given into the
control of Dr. Crippen. A father is thought not to teach his sons the
purest morality; so they are put under the tutorship of Eugene Aram.
These celebrated criminals are no more rare in their respective
professions than the cruel parents are in the profession of parenthood.
But indeed the case is far stronger than this; and there is no need to
rely on the case of such criminals at all. The ordinary weaknesses of
human nature will explain all the weaknesses of bureaucracy and business
government all over the world. The official need only be an ordinary man
to be more indifferent to other people’s children than to his own; and
even to sacrifice other people’s family prosperity to his own. He may be
bored; he may be bribed; he may be brutal, for any one of the thousand
reasons that ever made a man a brute. All this elementary common sense
is entirely left out of account in our educational and social systems of
today. It is assumed that the hireling will _not_ flee, and that solely
because he is a hireling. It is denied that the shepherd will lay down
his life for the sheep; or for that matter, even that the she-wolf will
fight for the cubs. We are to believe that mothers are inhuman; but not
that officials are human. There are unnatural parents, but there are no
natural passions; at least, there are none where the fury of King Lear
dared to find them--in the beadle. Such is the latest light on the
education of the young; and the same principle that is applied to the
child is applied to the husband and wife. Just as it assumes that a
child will certainly be loved by anybody except his mother, so it
assumes that a man can be happy with anybody except the one woman he has
himself chosen for his wife.
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