The Superstition of DivorceChesterton, G. K. (Gilbert Keith)
Religion
The Superstition of Divorce
Chesterton, G. K. (Gilbert Keith)
Divorce
There is perhaps no worse advice, nine times out of ten, than the advice
to do the work that’s nearest. It is especially bad when it means, as
it generally does, removing the obstacle that’s nearest. It means that
men are not to behave like men but like mice; who nibble at the thing
that’s nearest. The man, like the mouse, undermines what he cannot
understand. Because he himself bumps into a thing, he calls it the
nearest obstacle; though the obstacle may happen to be the pillar that
holds up the whole roof over his head. He industriously removes the
obstacle; and in return the obstacle removes him, and much more valuable
things than he. This opportunism is perhaps the most unpractical thing
in this highly unpractical world. People talk vaguely against
destructive criticism; but what is the matter with this criticism is not
that it destroys, but that it does not criticise. It is destruction
without design. It is taking a complex machine to pieces bit by bit, in
any order, without even knowing what the machine is for. And if a man
deals with a deadly dynamic machine on the principle of touching the
knob that’s nearest, he will find out the defects of that cheery
philosophy. Now leaving many sincere and serious critics of modern
marriage on one side for the moment, great masses of modern men and
women, who write and talk about marriage, are thus nibbling blindly at
it like an army of mice. When the reformers propose, for instance, that
divorce should be obtainable after an absence of three years (the
absence actually taken for granted in the first military arrangements of
the late European War) their readers and supporters could seldom give
any sort of logical reason for the period being three years, and not
three months or three minutes. They are like people who should say “Give
me three feet of dog”; and not care where the cut came. Such persons
fail to see a dog as an organic entity; in other words, they cannot make
head or tail of it. And the chief thing to say about such reformers of
marriage is that they cannot make head or tail of it. They do not know
what it is, or what it is meant to be, or what its supporters suppose it
to be; they never look at it, even when they are inside it. They do the
work that’s nearest; which is poking holes in the bottom of a boat under
the impression that they are digging in a garden. This question of what
a thing is, and whether it is a garden or a boat, appears to them
abstract and academic. They have no notion of how large is the idea they
attack; or how relatively small appear the holes that they pick in it.
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