The Superstition of DivorceChesterton, G. K. (Gilbert Keith)
Religion
The Superstition of Divorce
Chesterton, G. K. (Gilbert Keith)
Divorce
There is a very permanent truth in
the fact that two free persons deliberately tie themselves to a log of
wood. And it is the idea of tying oneself to something that runs through
all this old amorous allegory like a pattern of fetters. There is always
the notion of hearts chained together, or skewered together, or in some
manner secured; there is a security that can only be called captivity.
That it frequently fails to secure itself has nothing to do with the
present point. The point is that every philosophy of sex must fail,
which does not account for its ambition of fixity, as well as for its
experience of failure. There is nothing to make Orlando commit himself
on the sworn evidence of the nearest tree. He is not bound to be bound;
he is under constraint, but nobody constrains him to be under
constraint. In short, Orlando took a vow to marry precisely as Valentine
took a vow not to marry. Nor could any ascetic, without being a heretic,
have asserted in the wildest reactions of asceticism, that the vow of
Orlando was not lawful as well as the vow of Valentine. But it is a
notable fact that even when it was not lawful, it was still a vow.
Through all that mediæval culture, which has left us the legend of
romance, there ran this pattern of a chain, which was felt as binding
even where it ought not to bind. The lawless loves of mediæval legends
all have their own law, and especially their own loyalty, as in the
tales of Tristram or Lancelot. In this sense we might say that mediæval
profligacy was more fixed than modern marriage. I am not here discussing
either modern or mediæval ethics, in the matter of what they did say or
ought to say of such things. I am only noting as a historical fact the
insistence of the mediæval imagination, even at its wildest, upon one
particular idea. That idea is the idea of the vow. It might be the vow
which St. Valentine took; it might be a lesser vow which he regarded as
lawful; it might be a wild vow which he regarded as quite lawless. But
the whole society which made such festivals and bequeathed to us such
traditions was full of the idea of vows; and we must recognise this
notion, even if we think it nonsensical, as the note of the whole
civilisation. And Valentine and the valentine both express it for us;
even more if we feel them both as exaggerated, or even as exaggerating
opposites. Those extremes meet; and they meet in the same place. Their
trysting place is by the tree on which the lover hung his love-letters.
And even if the lover hung himself on the tree, instead of his literary
compositions, even that act had about it also an indefinable flavour of
finality.
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