The Superstition of DivorceChesterton, G. K. (Gilbert Keith)
Religion
The Superstition of Divorce
Chesterton, G. K. (Gilbert Keith)
Divorce
surrounding his entrance was full of the sense of a separate and
personal decision. There is one place where we can still find this
sentiment; the sentiment of something at once free and final. We can
feel it, if the service is properly understood, before and after the
marriage vows at any ordinary wedding in any ordinary church.
Such, in very vague outline, has been the historical nature of vows; and
the unique part they played in that mediæval civilisation out of which
modern civilisation rose--or fell. We can now consider, a little less
cloudily than it is generally considered nowadays, whether we really
think vows are good things; whether they ought to be broken; and (as
would naturally follow) whether they ought to be made. But we can never
judge it fairly till we face, as I have tried to suggest, this main fact
of history; that the personal pledge, feudal or civic or monastic, was
the way in which the world did escape from the system of slavery in the
past. For the modern break-down of mere contract leaves it still
doubtful if there be any other way of escaping it in the future.
The idea, or at any rate the ideal, of the thing called a vow is fairly
obvious. It is to combine the fixity that goes with finality with the
self-respect that only goes with freedom. The man is a slave who is his
own master, and a king who is his own ancestor. For all kinds of social
purposes he has the calculable orbit of the man in the caste or the
servile state; but in the story of his own soul he is still pursuing,
at great peril, his own adventure. As seen by his neighbours, he is as
safe as if immured in a fortress; but as seen by himself he may be for
ever careering through the sky or crashing towards the earth in a
flying-ship. What is socially humdrum is produced by what is
individually heroic; and a city is made not merely of citizens but
knight-errants. It is needless to point out the part played by the
monastery in civilising Europe in its most barbaric interregnum; and
even those who still denounce the monasteries will be found denouncing
them for these two extreme and apparently opposite eccentricities. They
are blamed for the rigid character of their collective routine; and also
for the fantastic character of their individual fanaticism. For the
purposes of this part of the argument, it would not matter if the
marriage vow produced the most austere discomforts of the monastic vow.
The point for the present is that it was sustained by a sense of free
will; and the feeling that its evils were not accepted but chosen. The
same spirit ran through all the guilds and popular arts and spontaneous
social systems of the whole civilisation. It had all the discipline of
an army; but it was an army of volunteers.
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