The Superstition of DivorceChesterton, G. K. (Gilbert Keith)
Religion
The Superstition of Divorce
Chesterton, G. K. (Gilbert Keith)
Divorce
I have put first the question of what is marriage. And we are now in a
position to ask more clearly what is divorce. It is not merely the
negation or neglect of marriage; for any one can always neglect
marriage. It is not the dissolution of the legal obligation of marriage,
or even the legal obligation of monogamy; for the simple reason that no
such obligation exists. Any man in modern London may have a hundred
wives if he does not call them wives; or rather, if he does not go
through certain more or less mystical ceremonies in order to assert that
they are wives. He might create a certain social coolness round his
household, a certain fading of his general popularity. But that is not
created by law, and could not be prevented by law. As the late Lord
Salisbury very sensibly observed about boycotting in Ireland, “How can
you make a law to prevent people going out of the room when somebody
they don’t like comes into it?” We cannot be forcibly introduced to a
polygamist by a policeman. It would not be an assertion of social
liberty, but a denial of social liberty, if we found ourselves
practically obliged to associate with all the profligates in society.
But divorce is not in this sense mere anarchy. On the contrary divorce
is in this sense respectability; and even a rigid excess of
respectability. Divorce in this sense might indeed be not unfairly
called snobbery. The definition of divorce, which concerns us here, is
that it is the attempt to give respectability, and not liberty. It is
the attempt to give a certain social status, and not a legal status. It
is indeed supposed that this can be done by the alteration of certain
legal forms; and this will be more or less true according to the extent
to which law as such overawed public opinion, or was valued as a true
expression of public opinion. If a man divorced in the large-minded
fashion of Henry the Eighth pleaded his legal title among the peasantry
of Ireland, for instance, I think he would find a difference still
existing between respectability and religion. But the peculiar point
here is that many are claiming the sanction of religion as well as of
respectability. They would attach to their very natural and sometimes
very pardonable experiments a certain atmosphere, and even glamour,
which has undoubtedly belonged to the status of marriage in historic
Christendom. But before they make this attempt, it would be well to ask
why such a dignity ever appeared or in what it consisted. And I fancy we
shall find ourselves confronted with the very simple truth, that the
dignity arose wholly and entirely out of the fidelity; and that the
glamour merely came from the vow. People were regarded as having a
certain dignity because they were dedicated in a certain way; as bound
to certain duties and, if it be preferred, to certain discomforts. It
may be irrational to endure these discomforts; it may even be irrational
to respect them. But it is certainly much more irrational to respect
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