Jesus Christ -- Biography; Palestine -- Social life and customs; Syria -- Social life and customs
A neighbor of mine in a Mount Lebanon village makes a trip to Damascus
and comes to my house of an evening to tell me all about it. He would
not be a Syrian if he did not give wings to his fancy and present me
with an idealistic painting of his adventure, instead of handing me a
photograph. I listen and laugh and wonder. I know his statements are
not wholly correct, and he knows exactly how I feel about it. We both
are aware, however, that {126} the proceedings of the evening are not
those of a business transaction, but of an entertainment. My friend
does not maliciously misrepresent the facts; he simply loves to speak
in poetic terms and is somewhat inhospitable to cross-examination.
Certainly we would not buy and sell sheep and oxen and fields and
vineyards after that fashion, but we like to be so entertained. Beyond
the wide margin of social hospitality and the latitude of intellectual
tolerance, I am aware of the fact that in all the flourish of metaphor
and simile, what my visitor really meant to say was either that his
trip to Damascus was pleasant or that it was hazardous, and that there
were many interesting things to see in that portion of the world; all
of which was indubitably true.
While on a visit to Syria, after having spent several years in this
country, where I had lived almost exclusively with Americans, I was
very strongly impressed by the decidedly sharp contrast between the
Syrian and the American modes of thought. The years had worked many
{127} changes in me, and I had become addicted to the more compact
phraseology of the American social code.
In welcoming me to his house, an old friend of mine spoke with
impressive cheerfulness as follows: "You have extremely honored me by
coming into my abode [_menzel_], I am not worthy of it. This house is
yours; you can burn it if you wish. My children also are at your
disposal; I would sacrifice them all for your pleasure. What a blessed
day this is, now that the light of your countenance has shone upon us";
and so forth, and so on.
I understood my friend fully and most agreeably, although it was not
easy for me to translate his words to my American wife without causing
her to be greatly alarmed at the possibility that the house would be
set on fire and the children slain for our pleasure. What my friend
really meant in his effusive welcome was no more or less than what a
gracious American host means when he says, "I am delighted to see you;
please make yourself at home."
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