But beauty, innocent beauty of thought, of sound, of sight, seems to me
to be perhaps the most precious thing in the world, and to hold within
it a hope which stretches away even beyond the grave. Out of silence
and nothingness we arise; we have our short space of sight and hearing;
and then into the silence we depart. But in that interval we are
surrounded by much joy. Sometimes the path is hard and lonely, and we
stumble in miry ways; but sometimes our way is through fields and
thickets, and the valley is full of sunset light. If we could be more
calm and quiet, less anxious about the impression we produce, more
quick to welcome what is glad and sweet, more simple, more contented,
what a gain would be there! I wonder more and more every day that I
live that we do not value better the thought of these calmer things,
because the least effort to reach them seems to pull down about us a
whole cluster of wholesome fruits, grapes of Eschol, apples of
Paradise. We are kept back, it seems to me, by a kind of silly fear of
ridicule, from speaking more sincerely and instantly of these delights.
I read the _Life_ of a great artist the other day who received a title
of honour from the State. I do not think he cared much for the title
itself, but he did care very much for the generous praise of his
friends that the little piece of honour called forth. I will not quote
his exact words, but he said in effect that he wondered why friends
should think it necessary to wait for such an occasion to indulge in
the noble pleasure of praising, and why they should not rather have a
day in the year when they could dare to write to the friends whom they
admired and loved, and praise them for being what they were. Of course
if such a custom were to become general, it would be clumsily spoilt by
foolish persons, as all things are spoilt which become conventional.
But the fact remains that the sweet pleasure of praising, of
encouraging, of admiring and telling our admiration, is one that we
English people are sparing of, to our own loss and hurt. It is just as
false to refrain from saying a generous thing for fear of being thought
insincere and what is horribly called gushing, as it is to say a hard
thing for the sake of being thought straightforward. If a hard thing
must be said, let us say it with pain and tenderness, but faithfully.
And if a pleasant thing can be said, let us say it with joy, and with
no less faithfulness.
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