The Traditional Games of England, Scotland, and Ireland (Vol 1 of 2): With Tunes, Singing-Rhymes and Methods of Playing etc.Gomme, Alice Bertha
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The Traditional Games of England, Scotland, and Ireland (Vol 1 of 2): With Tunes, Singing-Rhymes and Methods of Playing etc.
Gomme, Alice Bertha
Folklore -- Great Britain; Games -- Great Britain
Elworthy (_West Country Words_), in describing this game, says: “The
person behind whom the handkerchief is dropped is entitled to kiss the
person who dropped it, if he or she can catch him or her, before the
person can get round the ring to the vacant place. Of course, when a
girl drops it she selects a favoured swain, and the chase is severe up
to a point, but when a girl is the pursuer there often is a kind of
donkey race lest she should have to give the kiss which the lad takes no
pains to avoid.” Mr. Elworthy does not mention any words being used, and
it is therefore probable that this is the “Drop-handkerchief” game,
which generally has no kissing. It also, in the way it is played,
resembles “French Jackie.” In the Wolstanton game, Miss Keary says: “If
the owner of the handkerchief overtakes the one who is bitten as they
run round, they shake hands and go into the middle of the ring, while
the others sing the marriage formula.” In Berkshire (_Antiq._ xxvii.
255) the game is played without words, and apparently no handkerchief or
other sign is used. Miss Thoyts says the young man raises his hat when
he embraces the young woman of his choice. To “throw (or fling) the
handkerchief” is a common expression for an expected proposal of
marriage which is more of a condescension than a complimentary or
flattering one to the girl. “Kiss in the Ring” is probably a relic of
the earliest form of marriage by choice or selection. The custom of
dropping or sending a glove as the signal of a challenge may have been
succeeded by the handkerchief in this game. Halliwell, p. 227, gives the
game of “Drop Glove,” in which a glove is used. For the use of
handkerchiefs as love-tokens see Brand, ii. 92.
See “Drop Handkerchief,” “French Jackie.”
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