The Traditional Games of England, Scotland, and Ireland (Vol 2 of 2): With Tunes, Singing-Rhymes, and Methods of Playing etc.Gomme, Alice Bertha
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The Traditional Games of England, Scotland, and Ireland (Vol 2 of 2): With Tunes, Singing-Rhymes, and Methods of Playing etc.
Gomme, Alice Bertha
Folklore -- Great Britain; Games -- Great Britain
pre-Celtic peoples of these islands—a relic therefore going back many
centuries for its origin, and which is of inestimable service in
discussing some important problems of the ethnic significance of
folk-lore. These conclusions are entirely derived from the significant
position which this game occupies in relation to Esthonian (non-Aryan)
and to Teutonic (Aryan) marriage customs respectively, and therefore it
is of considerable importance to note that it entirely fits in with the
conclusion which my husband has drawn as to the non-Aryan origin of
water-worship (see Gomme’s _Ethnology of Folk-lore_, pp. 79-105).
There is, however, something further which seems to bring this game into
line with non-Aryan marriage customs. The marriage signified by the game
is acknowledged and sanctioned by the presence of witnesses; is made
between two people who choose each other without any form of compulsion;
is accompanied by blessings upon the young couple and prognostications
of the birth of children. These points show that the marriage ceremony
belongs to a time when the object of the union was to have children, and
when its duration was not necessarily for life. It is curious to note
that water worship is distinctly connected with the desire to have
children (_Proc. Roy. Irish Acad._, 3rd ser., ii. 9); and that the idea
of the temporary character of the marriage status of the lower classes
of the people is still extant I have certain evidence of. Early in
November of 1895, a man tried for bigamy gave as his defence that he
thought his marriage was ended with his first wife, as he had been away
seven years. It is a frequently told story. A year and a day and seven
years are the two periods for which the popular mind regards marriage
binding. “I was faithful to him for seven years, and had more than my
two children,” a woman said to me once, as if two children were the
required or expected number to be born in that period. If there is a
popular belief of this kind, it is strangely borne out by this
game-rhyme. “First a girl, and then a boy,” may also be shown to be a
result to be desired and prayed for, in the popular belief that a man’s
cycle of life is not complete until he is the father of a daughter, who,
in her turn, shall have a son. Miss Hawkins Dempster obtained evidence
of such a belief from the lips of a man who considered he was entitled
to marry another woman, as his wife had only borne him sons, and
therefore his life was not (like hers) complete.
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