The Traditional Games of England, Scotland, and Ireland (Vol 2 of 2): With Tunes, Singing-Rhymes, and Methods of Playing etc.Gomme, Alice Bertha
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The Traditional Games of England, Scotland, and Ireland (Vol 2 of 2): With Tunes, Singing-Rhymes, and Methods of Playing etc.
Gomme, Alice Bertha
Folklore -- Great Britain; Games -- Great Britain
The free choice of both woman and man is opposed to the theory of our
present marriage ceremony, where permission or authority to marry is
only necessary for the woman, the man being able to do as he pleases.
This is now regarded as a sign of women’s early subjection to the
authority of men and their subordinate place in the household. But it
does not follow that this was the relative position of men and women
when a ceremony was first found needful and instituted. I am inclined to
think it must have been, rather, the importance attached to the woman’s
act of ratification, in the presence of witnesses, of her formal promise
to bear children to a particular man. Marriage would then consist of
contracts between two parties for the purpose of, and which actually
resulted in, the birth of children; of concubinage, or the wife
consenting to children being born to her husband by another woman in her
stead, if she herself failed in this respect (such children being hers
and her husband’s jointly); of marriage without ceremony or set purpose,
resulting from young people being thrown together at feast times,
gathering in of harvests, &c., which might or might not result in the
birth of children. These conditions of the marriage rite are at variance
with what we know of the Aryan marriage generally and its results; and
that they flow from the customs preserved in the game under
consideration is further proof of the origin of the game from a marriage
rite of the pre-Celtic people of these islands. The “kissing together”
of the married couple is the token to the witnesses of their mutual
consent to the contract.
Attention has already been directed to the fact that parts of the
formula preserved in this game are also found in other games, and it may
possibly be assumed therefrom that the same origin must be given to
these games as to “Sally Water.” The objection to such a conclusion is
mainly that it is impossible to decide to which game the popular
marriage formula originally belonged, and from which it has been
borrowed by the other games. Seeing how exactly it fits the
circumstances of “Sally Water,” it might not be too much to suggest that
it rightly belongs to this game. Another point to be noted is that the
tune to which the words of the marriage formula are sung is always the
same, irrespective of that to which the previous verses are sung, and
this rule obtains in all those games in which this formula appears—a
further proof of the antiquity of the formula as an outcome of the early
marriage ceremony.
[7] Redruth version—
Fly for the east, fly for the west,
Fly for the very one you love best.
Sally Sober
A game among girls [undescribed].—Dickinson’s _Cumberland Glossary_
(_Supplement_).
Salmon Fishers
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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