The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)Crooke, William
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The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
[Marriage.] 7. The bride is purchased and her price by tribal custom is
fixed at ten rupees. Polygamy is permitted, and an Agariya may have as
many wives as he can afford to purchase and maintain. The senior wife
(Jethi Mehrâru) is head of the household; she joins her husband in the
family worship and she receives a degree of respect among the clansmen
at marriages, etc., which is denied to the junior wives. If there are
more wives than one they live in the same house, but in separate huts.
Concubinage with women who are not members of the tribe and polyandry
are prohibited. The women enjoy a considerable amount of liberty both
before and after marriage. If an unmarried girl is detected in an
intrigue with a clansman, her father can get her married to her lover
on paying a tribal fine of ten rupees and providing a feast for the
clansmen to the amount of one goat and the necessary quantity of rice.
If she offends with a stranger she is permanently expelled.
[Marriage ceremonies.] 8. The age for marrying girls is between five
and ten, and the parents are disgraced if they do not marry their
daughters at an early age. The boy’s maternal uncle (mâmu) arranges the
marriage. [105] There are no professional marriage brokers. The consent
of the parents on both sides is essential, and the parties have no
freedom of choice. When the preliminaries are arranged, the boy’s
father sends to the girl’s father ten rupees and two loin cloths
(dhoti). This is the invariable rate whatever the means of the parties
may be. None of this becomes the property of the bride and bridegroom,
except one of the loin cloths which is given to the bride; but her
father is expected to spend the cash received on the marriage feast. No
physical defects are a bar to marriage, and if after marriage the
bridegroom discovers any defect in the bride he must take her home. But
this very seldom happens because the relatives on both sides take care
to inspect the bride and bridegroom before the preliminaries are
arranged. The betrothal consists in the approval of the bride by the
boy’s maternal uncle and his acceptance of a dinner from the father of
the girl. After this the wedding day is fixed. Their marriages usually
take place in the light half of the month of Mâgh (January–February).
Five days before the wedding day, the matmângar ceremony is performed
in the usual way. On the marriage day the bridegroom comes with his
procession to the house of the bride. They are put up in a place
(Janwânsa) arranged for their reception. On that day it is not the
custom for the father of the bride to entertain the party. Next morning
the bridegroom comes with his friends to the bride’s house, and going
into the inner chamber, where she is hiding, drags her out into the
courtyard. This, and the rule of not entertaining the friends of the
bridegroom before the marriage, are obvious survivals of marriage by
capture. In the courtyard is fixed up a sort of pavilion (mânro), in
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