The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)Crooke, William
History
The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
the centre of which is planted a branch of the sâl tree (Shorea
robusta). The sâl is the sacred tree of many of the Dravidian races,
and its use at marriages seems to imply that tree marriage was the
original custom. Round this the pair walk five times, and then the
bride’s father makes a mark with turmeric on the foreheads of both, and
warns them to live in unity. After this the clansmen are fed, and the
bride is sent home with her husband. When she arrives at the door of
her husband’s house his sister (nanad) bars the entrance, and will not
admit the bride until the bridegroom gives her a couple of pice. After
this the bridegroom’s father feeds his clansmen, who return home next
day. Before they enter their new home there is a sort of confarreatio
ceremony when the pair have to sit down outside and eat together. The
essential part of this marriage ceremony, which is known as charhauwa,
because the bride is offered (charhâna) to the bridegroom, is the
payment of the bride price and the marking of the foreheads of the pair
by the father of the bride.
[Divorce.] 9. There is no real divorce: merely expulsion of the
faithless wife from hearth and home. The only ground for expulsion is
proof of the wife’s adultery to the satisfaction of the clansmen. In
fact, it is understood that no proof short of her being caught in the
act of adultery will be sufficient. If a woman is put away for
adultery, she cannot be remarried in the tribe. Concubinage with
strange women is forbidden. All the sons of all the wives rank and
share equally. If a woman has a child by a man of another tribe, he is
not received into the caste, cannot be married in the tribe, and the
clansmen will not eat with him.
[Widow Marriage.] 10. Widow marriage in the Sagâi form is allowed. When
a man proposes to marry a widow, he can do so with the consent of the
head of the family. Both parties give a tribal dinner, and the man rubs
some oil on the woman’s head and some red lead on the parting of her
hair, and brings her home. When he brings her home he has to entertain
the clansmen. The levirate is permitted, with the usual restriction
that it is only the younger brother of her late husband who is entitled
to claim her. It is only on his renouncing his right to her that she
can marry an outsider. If she have children by her first husband, they
do not accompany her to her new home, but remain with their father’s
brother. The widow, on re-marriage, has no rights to her first
husband’s property. If the children are very young, the uncle, who
maintains them, gets half their property as his remuneration. In the
same way if their uncle does not care to look after them, and they go
to their step-father, he receives half their inheritance, and in this
case the children are considered to be his own.
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