The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)Crooke, William
History
The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
afford it, after this the Pandit is sent for and there is a formal
naming ceremony (nâma karma), but this is not absolutely necessary.
[Marriage ceremonies.] 6. There is no fixed age for marriage. The
wealthier members of the tribe marry their daughters in infancy; poorer
people keep them till they are grown up in default of a suitable match
being arranged. The marriage follows the usual high caste form. When
the horoscopes agree (râs barag) and the friends are satisfied, a
Pandit is asked to fix a lucky day. No bride price is given or
received. Then the boy’s father sends to the bride’s house a maund of
curds, some sweets and two rupees in cash to clench the proposal. The
curds are sent in an earthen pot smeared with yellow; some red cloth is
put over the mouth and on this the money is placed. This constitutes
the betrothal. When the marriage day approaches the boy’s father sends
the bride some ornaments made of alloy (phûl), a silken tassel, some
henna and pomegranates, some sweetmeats, toys and a sheet (sâri). The
number of trays of presents should be at least eleven and not more than
one hundred and twenty-five. The girl’s father keeps for the bride only
the shawl, some sweets and flowers, and sends back the rest. Next day
these flowers are tied in the bride’s hair. If the marriage takes place
in a town she goes to a temple and worships, and there she meets her
future mother-in-law for the first time. After this follows the
anointing of the bride and bridegroom, known as Tel-hardi. When the
bridegroom reaches the house of the bride, he is seated on a wooden
stool, and the women of the family take up the bride in their arms and
revolve her in the air round the bridegroom. During this the bride
sprinkles rice (achhat) over him.
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