The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)Crooke, William
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The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 1 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
[Marriage ceremonies.] 8. The marriage ceremonies begin with the
betrothal, which is finished by the boy eating some betel sent to him
by a barber from the house of the bride. It seems to be the custom in
many cases to betroth children in their infancy. Then comes the lagan,
consisting of cash, clothes, a cocoanut and sweets sent by the father
of the bride with a letter fixing the marriage day; inside this is
placed some dûb grass. The Brâhman recites verses (mantra) as he gives
these things to the boy seated in a sacred square, while the women beat
a small drum and sing songs. This goes on the whole night (ratjaga).
Next follows the anointing (ubtana) of the bride and bridegroom. During
this time the pair are not allowed to leave the house through fear of
the Evil Eye and the attacks of malignant spirits. On the day fixed in
the lagan some mango and chhonkar leaves, some turmeric and two pice
are tied on a bamboo, which is fixed in the court-yard by some relation
on the female side, or by the priest. He is given some money, clothes,
or grain, which is called neg. Then a feast of food, cooked without
butter, known as the marhwa, or “pavilion,” is given to the friends.
The bridegroom is dressed in a coat (jâma) of yellow-coloured cloth,
and wears a head-dress (maur) made of palm leaves. When they reach the
bride’s village, they are received in a hut (janwânsa), prepared for
them. The bridegroom’s father sends, by a connection (mân), some
sharbat to the bride, and she sends food in return: this is known as
barauniya. After this the pair walk seven times round the sacred fire,
and a fire sacrifice (homa) is offered. Then follows the “giving away”
of the bride (kanyâdân), and the pair are taken into an inner room,
where they eat sweetmeats and rice together; this is known as sahkaur,
or confarreatio. A shoe is tied up in cloth, and the women try to
induce the boy to worship it as one of the local godlings. If he falls
into the trap there is great merriment. The knot which has been tied in
the clothes of the bride and bridegroom is then untied, his crown is
taken off, and the marriage being over he returns to the janwânsa.
Among poor people there is no lagan and no betrothal. Some money is
paid to the bride’s father, and the girl is taken to her husband’s
house and married there. No pavilion is erected, and the ceremony
consists in making the girl and boy walk round the sacred fire, which
is lighted in the court-yard. Girls that are stolen or seduced are
usually married in this way, which is known as dola.
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