The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)Crooke, William
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The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
[Marriage ceremony.] 12. There is nothing very remarkable about the
marriage ceremony. The bride is selected by the boy’s father and
approved of by the Mahto. The boy’s father then on a date (lagan) fixed
by a Brâhman sends or takes to the bride’s father a present which fixes
the betrothal. This is known as neg bharna, and in some places consists
of four rupees in cash, two sers turmeric, two sers oil, and two sers
coarse sugar (gur); in others of one and-a-quarter sers turmeric, one
and-a-quarter sers sugar, and one and-a-quarter sers of oil. The
marriage pavilion (mânro) has the middle post of siddh wood (Hardwickia
binata). It is erected by the sister or paternal aunt of the bride, who
receives a small present for doing this. Five days before marriage the
matmangar ceremony is performed in the usual way as described in the
case of the Bhuiyas, except that the earth is dug by the father’s
sister’s husband (phûpha) of the bride, and is brought home by five
unmarried girls of the bride’s sept, who make out of it a rude altar
(bedi) in the marriage shed, on which is placed the lucky water jar
(kalsa), and a rude representation of parrots (suga) sitting on a tree,
which is made by the village carpenter out of the wood of the
cotton-tree (semal). On this day the family priest (purohit) sprinkles
the bride and bridegroom with a bunch of dûb grass soaked in turmeric
and oil (haldi charhâna). This is done five times. Before the
procession starts the bridegroom’s mother does the “waving” ceremony
(parachhan), as described in connection with the Bhuiyârs. The
bridegroom’s procession is met by the bride’s friends outside the
village, and they embrace (meli jholi). On reaching the reception place
(janwânsa) the bridegroom’s father takes the wedding present
(charhauwa) to the bride. This consists of some jewelry and a sheet for
the girl and her mother. When the bridegroom arrives he and the bride
are seated on leaf mats or stools in a square (chauk) made under the
marriage shed: the bride’s father washes the feet of the bridegroom,
and her mother does the same for the bride. Then the hands of the pair
are joined, and the bride’s father pours water over them, while the
Pandit [131] reads the sankalpa or “verses of donation.” They then walk
five times round the parrot images and water jar, the girl’s brother
pouring a handful of parched rice (lawa) over them each time they pass;
while some parched grain is thrown on the sacred fire (hom), which is
kept burning in the shed. Then the pair sit down, and the bridegroom
marks the right foot of the bride with red lead, and taking five
pinches of it between the thumb and the first finger of his right hand
rubs it in the parting of her hair. This is the binding portion of the
ceremony. Then the wife of the bride’s brother (bhaujâi) sprinkles some
red lead (sendur chhirakna) over the bridegroom and gets a small
present. She then escorts the pair into the retiring room (kohabar),
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