The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)Crooke, William
History
The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
the walls of which are marked with rude figures drawn in red clay
(geru). Over these the bridegroom pours some oil, and has to submit to
a good deal of coarse practical jokes from the female relations of the
bride. [132] Next morning is the khichari or ceremony of confarreatio,
when the bridegroom and bride eat together. After this is the mânro
hilâi or “shaking of the marriage shed.” The father of the bridegroom
pulls up and pitches away one of the poles of the pavilion amid the
shouts of his party. This may possibly be a survival of marriage by
capture. On the bridegroom arriving at his house his sister, apparently
with the same idea, blocks the door, and will not admit the bride until
she gets a present. At the bridegroom’s house the kohabar ceremony, as
above described, is again performed. A day or two after this, on a day
fixed by the Pandit, some woman of the family takes the wreaths of
mango leaves (bandanwâr) which decorated the door and the sacred water
jar (kalsa), and throws them into a stream. The deities that preside
over marriages are Gauri (Devi) and Ganesa. Images of them made of
cow-dung are placed in the marriage shed, and are rubbed with a little
of the red lead before it is applied to the head of the bride. A
marriage can be broken off after the first embassage (puchhâwa) of the
headman, but once the red lead is applied it is final.
[Forms of marriage.] 13. The three forms of recognized marriage are the
charhauwa and the sagâi for widows. There is also the gurâwat, or
marriage by exchange, when two persons exchange sisters. [133]
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