The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)Crooke, William
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The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
On that day the parents or brothers of the mother—if they can afford
it—send her a coat and cap made of red cloth for the baby, and a yellow
loin-cloth for the mother. This present is sometimes accompanied by a
special sort of sweetmeat known as suthaura (sonth, dry ginger) made of
sugar, ginger, and other spices; sometimes with the suthaura is sent
some caudle (achhwâni). There is no distinct trace of the couvade,
except that the husband has to take the first sup of the cleansing
draught given to the mother, and that he does not shave for six days
after his wife’s delivery. There are no special ceremonies in
connection with twins, but they are considered inauspicious. If during
the pregnancy of a woman an eclipse happen to occur, she is made to sit
quiet while it lasts with a stone pestle in her hand, and is not
allowed to move or touch any cutting instrument. If she move, it is
believed that her child will be deformed, and if she touch a cutting
implement that it will be born mutilated. The child is named by the
senior member of the family. On the fourth or fifth day after the
mother rejoins her family, the child’s head is shaved (mûnran), and
when about six months old, it is fed for the first time on grain
(annaprâsana); it is at this time that it is usually named. At the age
of five or seven its ears are bored (kanchhedan), and this constitutes
the initiation: after this the child must conform to the rules of the
tribe regarding food.
[Adoption.] 10. When it is proposed to adopt a boy, the clansmen are
invited and in their presence the parents make over the boy to the
adopter with these words,—“You were my son by a deed of evil (pâp); now
you are the son of so-and-so by a virtuous act (dharm).” As the boy is
accepted, the members of the caste sprinkle rice over him, and the
adopter gives a feast.
[Betrothal.] 11. The customs of betrothal vary somewhat in different
places. Thus, in Mirzapur, when a marriage is proposed, the
bridegroom’s father with his uncle and other near relations visit the
bride. She is carefully examined to make sure that she has no physical
defect, and, if approved, the boy’s father gives her a rupee, and some
coarse sugar is distributed. Then her father entertains the party. Next
follows the regular betrothal (barrekhi). This generally takes place at
the village liquor shop, where the two fathers exchange platters
(dauna) full of liquor five times, and at the last turn the bride’s
father puts a rupee into the cup of his relation-to-be. Liquor is
served round, two-thirds of the cost of which is paid by the father of
the boy, and one-third by the father of the girl. On this day the date
of the wedding is fixed by the Pandit. In Ballia, on the contrary, the
parents and relations of the girl go to the boy’s house and present him
with a rupee and loin-cloth. This is known as paupûja, or “the
worshipping of the feet” of the bridegroom.
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