The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)Crooke, William
History
The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
9. Seven days before the actual marriage ceremony the bride’s father
sends a letter (lagan ki chitthi) to the bridegroom’s father fixing the
date and hour of the marriage. A sum of money already agreed on
accompanies this letter. When the procession starts to fetch the bride,
they halt outside her village at a place prepared for them called the
Janwânsa. In the evening they march in procession to the bride’s house,
being met half-way by her friends. At the door the tîka ceremony is
performed, and another present in money equal to that sent with the
lagan is made to the bridegroom. The bridegroom is then taken inside,
where he throws a fan on the marriage shed (mandap) and returns to his
party. Next day, after the dinner, and generally at night, the actual
Bhanwar or perambulation of the bride and bridegroom round the sacred
fire and the “giving away” of the girl (kanyâdân) are performed. The
parents of the bride are not allowed to be present at the Bhanwar
ceremony. On the third day the third dinner (roti) is given, and the
ceremony of permitting the girl to go with her husband (bidâi) is done.
Here, again, the bride’s father makes a third present equal in value to
the previous two, which is known as bela or “cup.” It is optional with
the parties to perform the ceremony of changing the seats of the
married pair (lautpatta). In case this ceremony is performed at the
marriage it is not necessary to repeat it when the bride is leaving for
her husband’s house. If done, then it is known as Chauka, and the
presents made at it by the father of the bride must equal in value half
the presents made at the marriage. The binding part of the marriage
ceremony is the perambulations round the fire and the giving away of
the bride. The only apparent survival of marriage by capture is the
ceremony of tîka or darwâza performed the first day. In this his
maternal uncle takes the bridegroom in his arms inside the house of the
bride, and there he strikes the marriage hut with a fan. As he is going
away the women of the family beat the man who is carrying him with
their fists and shout, “He has struck the mandap and is going away.”
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