The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)Crooke, William
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The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
4. On the day of the matmangara the women assemble and sing after they
have anointed their heads with oil. Then the sacred earth is collected
in the way already described in the case of the Bhuiyas. On the day of
the anointing five men of the tribe erect the marriage pavilion in the
usual manner. The barber’s wife rubs the boy with a sprig of dûb grass
soaked in oil and turmeric. No Brâhman attends. On the bhatwân day the
clansmen are fed on rice and pulse, and at night they get drunk and
sing the song known as birha. When the bridegroom, dressed in his
wedding garments, starts with his procession, he is carried out as far
as the door in the arms of his brother-in-law. When he gets outside the
village his wedding clothes are taken off, and he does the rest of the
journey on foot until he approaches the house of the bride, when he is
dressed again. His brother-in-law again carries him in his arms to the
door of the bride’s house, where the wave ceremony (parachhan) is done
by his future mother-in-law, who moves a rice pounder, sieve and a lota
full of water round his head. During this time a Dhârhi plays the
mridang or double drum, and the women beat earthen saucers (thiliya)
with pieces of stone. Then men sing the birha and the women the lâchâri
songs. The wedding party then retire to the reception place (janwânsa)
where all the clansmen assemble. There some food is sent for the
bridegroom from the bride. Then the bridegroom and another boy who acts
as his best man (shâhbâla) eat together. This food is brought by the
girl’s brother-in-law, who receives one anna as his perquisite. Then
the clansmen have a drink and salute each other. When the lucky time
arrives for the marriage, they take the bridegroom to the pavilion and
seat him on a stool facing the east. The friends sit on each side. A
piece of mango wood is lighted and some clarified butter dropped on it
with mango leaves (tallo). The men recite the auspicious marriage songs
(sumangala swâha) and then the bride is brought into the pavilion by
her sister or sister-in-law and she knots together the clothes of the
pair. Then the bride’s father washes the great toes of the pair in a
tray full of Ganges water, which he drinks, and throws a little of the
water on his head. Then behind the shelter of a sheet which is held up
before them the boy applies red lead to the parting of the girl’s hair,
and they walk five times round the marriage pavilion. The boy’s elder
brother throws parched rice over them, and puts a necklace round the
bride’s neck. Then her sister-in-law escorts the pair into the retiring
room (kohabar) and makes them bow to the family god. After this the
boy’s wedding crown is removed and he returns to the wedding party.
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