The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4) — John Shaqi
The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)Crooke, William
History
The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
[Marriage rules.] 7. Marriages may take place between members of the
same gotra, but not of the same nukh. There is no exact formula or
exogamy; but a man cannot marry among his near relations on the
father’s or mother’s side, and the same rule applies to women.
Differences of religion, provided both parties are followers of some
form of Hinduism, and changes of occupation, are not a bar to
intermarriage; but differences of local or geographical position are a
bar. Thus intermarriages between Bhatiyas of Bombay, Kachh, and
Gujarât, and those of the Panjâb, Sindh, and the North-Western
Provinces, are not permitted. Thus Bhatiyas may be divided into the
following two endogamous groups based on geographical position:—The
first group consists of Kâchhis, Halâis, Prijas, Kathiâwâris, Gujarâtis
and Bhatiyas of Dhârangânw. The second group consists of Bhatiyas of
Jaysalmer, Sindh, the Panjâb, and the North-Western Provinces. As a
rule no Bhatiya can take a second wife in the lifetime of the first,
unless she be barren or unfaithful to her husband, in which case she
will be expelled from caste. In no case can the number exceed two, and
that limit is seldom reached. When a Bhatiya happens to have two wives
they live under the same roof and enjoy the same privileges in every
respect. In the case of girls marriage must be performed before the age
of twelve: there is no time fixed in the case of males. Marriage is
arranged by the friends in both sides, and there are no marriage
brokers. The children of both marriages, should a man have two wives,
rank equally for purposes of inheritance. Widow marriage is not
allowed, and the offspring of an illicit connection are not admitted
into the caste, and do not rank as heirs to the estate of their father.
An unfaithful wife is excommunicated, and so is a man who openly keeps
a concubine.
[Marriage ceremonies.] 8. At the betrothal the father of the girl sends
what is called the sagun, consisting of one rupee, a cocoanut, and some
coarse sugar, for the boy, which is given to him in the presence of the
brethren, who are invited to be in attendance, and the betrothal is
thus complete. The ceremony presupposes the mutual consent of the
parents of the parties. Betrothal is generally not reversible, and is
not annulled except on the discovery of some very serious physical
defect in either bride or bridegroom, and, if annulled, the expenses
are repaid by the party breaking the engagement, though there is no
distinct rule on the subject. Betrothal may take place any time before
marriage. The marriage ceremony is of the orthodox type, and the
binding part of it is the giving away of the bride (kanyâdân) and the
perambulation (pheron phirna) round the sacred fire. The marriage is
complete and irreversible when the fourth circuit is finished. Pokharnê
Brâhmans act as priests at marriage and other ceremonies.
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