The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)Crooke, William
History
The tribes and castes of the North-Western Provinces and Oudh, Volume 2 (of 4)
Crooke, William
Caste -- India -- History; Hindus -- India; Tribes -- India -- History
second wife is taken she is usually a younger sister or close relation
of the first. Concubinage is not permitted. They have a strong
representative council (panchâyat), which is presided over by a
chairman (chaudhari), whose office is hereditary. The council deals
with offences in connection with marriage and caste usages.
Illegitimate children by women of other castes follow the caste of the
father, but are not allowed to eat, smoke, or intermarry with
legitimate Bhars. Widow marriage is permitted. Widows generally marry
widowers. The levirate is permitted but not enforced.
[Rules of marriage.] 6. In the marriage of a widow by sagâi the
bridegroom, accompanied by his friends, goes to the house of the widow,
where he pays a nominal sum as the bride-price. They are all
entertained on pork, boiled rice, and pulse. The bride is dressed in
ornaments and clothes provided by her suitor. Next morning he brings
her home and announces the union by feeding his clansmen. If he be not
a widower he has to perform a special ceremony. The bride and
bridegroom sit opposite each other, and a silver ring is placed between
them. The Pandit repeats some verses, during the recital of which the
bridegroom marks the ring five times with red lead. He then puts on the
ring, and never takes it off during his life. Girls are usually married
at the age of five or seven. In Azamgarh marriages are reported to take
place usually when the girl is nine years of age. A girl above ten is
known as rajaswâli, and it is a disgrace not to have her married. The
bride-price payable by the friends of the bridegroom is two-and-a-half
rupees and a sheet for the bride. In Azamgarh no bride-price is paid,
and if the bridegroom’s family is poor his friends contribute something
to the marriage expenses, which is known as tilak. Any serious physical
defect appearing in either party after marriage is recognised as a
valid ground for divorce. A wife cannot be divorced except for adultery
with a stranger to the caste. The divorce must be with the leave of the
tribal council, who will accept no evidence short of that of actual
eye-witnesses. Marriage negotiations are carried on by the maternal
uncle of the boy. When the match is settled the bride’s father goes to
the boy’s house and gives him a rupee. Then on a fixed day he returns
with some of his clansmen “to drink water” (pâni pîni kâ din). A square
(chauk) is formed in the court-yard, in which the boy and his future
father-in-law sit opposite each other. The bride’s father marks the
boy’s forehead with rice and curds, and he and his party are
entertained on rice, pork, goat’s flesh, and wine. On this day, with
the approval of the Pandit, the wedding day is fixed. The ritual is of
the usual type. It begins with the matmangar, or collection of earth,
as practised by allied castes. Then the pavilion (mânro) is set up at
both houses, in which a plough-share and plantain stems are fixed, near
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