“She entered the room with a careless, jaunty air; upon seeing
ladies who were strangers to her, she bawled out, ‘Ah! mon Dieu,
where is Franklin? Why did you not tell me there were ladies
here?’ You must suppose her speaking all this in French. ‘How I
look!’ said she, taking hold of a chemise made of tiffany, which
she had on over a blue lute-string, and which looked as much
upon the decay as her beauty, for she was once a handsome woman;
her hair was frizzled; over it she had a small straw hat, with a
dirty gauze half-handkerchief round it, and a bit of dirtier
gauze than ever my maids wore was bowed on behind. She had a
black gauze scarf thrown over her shoulders. She ran out of the
room; when she returned, the Doctor entered at one door, she at
the other; upon which she ran forward to him, caught him by the
hand, ‘Hélas! Franklin;’ then gave him a double kiss, one upon
each cheek, and another upon his forehead. When we went into the
room to dine, she was placed between the Doctor and Mr. Adams.
She carried on the chief of the conversation at dinner,
frequently locking her hand into the Doctor’s, and sometimes
spreading her arms upon the backs of both the gentlemen’s
chairs, then throwing her arm carelessly upon the Doctor’s neck.
“I should have been greatly astonished at this conduct, if the
good Doctor had not told me that in this lady I should see a
genuine Frenchwoman, wholly free from affectation or stiffness
of behavior, and one of the best women in the world. For this I
must take the Doctor’s word; but I should have set her down for
a very bad one, although sixty years of age, and a widow. I own
I was highly disgusted, and never wish for an acquaintance with
any ladies of this cast. After dinner she threw herself upon a
settee, where she showed more than her feet. She had a little
lap-dog, who was, next to the Doctor, her favorite. This she
kissed, and when he wet the floor she wiped it up with her
chemise. This is one of the Doctor’s most intimate friends, with
whom he dines once every week, and she with him. She is rich,
and is my near neighbor; but I have not yet visited her. Thus
you see, my dear, that manners differ exceedingly in different
countries. I hope, however, to find amongst the French ladies
manners more consistent with my ideas of decency, or I shall be
a mere recluse.” (Letters of Mrs. John Adams, p. 252.)
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