The True George Washington [10th Ed.]Ford, Paul Leicester
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The True George Washington [10th Ed.]
Ford, Paul Leicester
Generals -- United States -- Biography; Presidents -- United States -- Biography; Washington, George, 1732-1799
The love-affair thus alluded to had begun in March, 1758, when ill
health had taken Washington to Williamsburg to consult physicians,
thinking, indeed, of himself as a doomed man. In this trip he met Mrs.
Martha (Dandridge) Custis, widow of Daniel Parke Custis, one of the
wealthiest planters of the colony. She was at this time twenty-six
years of age, or Washington’s senior by nine months, and had been a
widow but seven, yet in spite of this fact, and of his own expected
“decay,” he pressed his love-making with an impetuosity akin to that
with which he had urged his suit of Miss Philipse, and (widows being
proverbial) with better success. The invalid had left Mount Vernon on
March 5, and by April 1 he was back at Fort Loudon, an engaged man,
having as well so far recovered his health as to be able to join his
command. Early in May he ordered a ring from Philadelphia, at a cost of
£2.16.0; soon after receiving it he found that army affairs once more
called him down to Williamsburg, and, as love-making is generally
considered a military duty, the excuse was sufficient. But sterner
duties on the frontier were awaiting him, and very quickly he was back
there and writing to his _fiancée_,—
“We have begun our march for the Ohio. A courier is starting for
Williamsburg, and I embrace the opportunity to send a few words to one
whose life is now inseparable from mine. Since that happy hour when we
made our pledges to each other, my thoughts have been continually going
to you as another Self. That an all-powerful Providence may keep us
both in safety is the prayer of your ever faithful and affectionate
friend.”
Five months after this letter was written, Washington was able to date
another from Fort Duquesne, and, the fall of that post putting an end
to his military service, only four weeks later he was back in
Williamsburg, and on January 6, 1759, he was married.
Very little is really known of his wife, beyond the facts that she was
petite, over-fond, hot-tempered, obstinate, and a poor speller. In 1778
she was described as “a sociable, pretty kind of woman,” and she seems
to have been but little more. One who knew her well described her as
“not possessing much sense, though a perfect lady and remarkably well
calculated for her position,” and confirmatory of this is the opinion
of an English traveller that “there was nothing remarkable in the
person of the lady of the President; she was matronly and kind, with
perfect good breeding.” None the less she satisfied Washington; even
after the proverbial six months were over he refused to wander from
Mount Vernon, writing that “I am now, I believe, fixed at this seat
with an agreeable Consort for life,” and in 1783 he spoke of her as the
“partner of all my Domestic enjoyments.”
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