The ugly-girl papers : $b or, Hints for the toiletPower, S. D. (Susan Dunning)
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The ugly-girl papers : $b or, Hints for the toilet
Power, S. D. (Susan Dunning)
Beauty, Personal; Women -- Health and hygiene
Was it not Madame de Genlis who described the education in manners
under the old régime of France? In her memoirs she speaks of hating
Paris, when she came from the provinces, for the ordeal she underwent
there to fit her for polite society. She was taught, what she fancied
she knew already, how to walk, and was placed in the stocks two or
three hours a day to teach her the right position of her feet in
standing. A corset and back-board were provided to form an erect habit.
Whether in her day or later ones, the elegancies of manner are not
cultivated without sincere pains. Nature, indeed, creates some models
of such refined proportions and such informing spirit that they fall
at once into the curves of grace; but these are meant for models, and
happily nothing forbids those of lesser merit to attempt the same
lesson. Are not some born masters of the piano, full-flown at once over
the first difficulties of music? But does this hinder any pupil from
six hours’ daily drill, if need be, to grasp the same difficulties?
The one end is to be attained, whether instantly or not; and in some
cases the most laborious is by all means the most delightful player.
Courage, then. The same thing is true of other efforts than those of
the key-board; and it is quite as certain that the woman who trains
herself to be graceful will be so, as that the clumsy young pedant at
the scales will, in time, rush victoriously through the “Shower of
Pearls,” the “Cascade of Roses,” or any other drawing-room favorite of
gelatinized octaves.
For the first comfort, it must be owned that American women have the
least natural grace of any nation in the world. English women are
usually well trained in a sort of martinet propriety of attitude which
suits their solid contours; but neither Anglo-Saxon race knows an
approach to those lengthened curves, those bends of every slender joint
and supple muscle, which fill the eye in looking at a woman of Latin
race. I watched a Spanish-American girl in the gallery of the United
States Senate one night, in order to seize, if possible, her charm of
gesture. She was rounded, yet fine in figure, and seemed to be, as I
can best phrase it, all muscle. No one could think of her bones as
having any more stiffness than the pliant sprays of an elm. She leaned
on the railing of the balcony, not straight forward as even the elegant
and delicate diplomatic English ladies did, but lengthwise, as if
reclining; and the bend of her supple wrist, with the black and gold
fan, was simply inimitable to an American woman. Those intransferable
curves bewitched the eye even to pain; but something was gained in that
five minutes’ study which I reduce to two points: Sideway movements
and attitudes please more than those either forward or backward. The
secret of grace is to teach every joint of the body to bend all that it
can.
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