The Unadjusted Girl, With Cases and Standpoint for Behavior AnalysisThomas, William Isaac
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The Unadjusted Girl, With Cases and Standpoint for Behavior Analysis
Thomas, William Isaac
Female juvenile delinquents -- Case studies; Young women
In earliest childhood she had known little or no restraint and had been
familiar with the freest sex life and complete absence of ordinary
social standards as regards sex. But there had been affection,
easy-going, good-natured attitudes and a great deal of personal freedom.
The loose living, the roving, unsettled existence had made it fairly
easy for Mary to accept and adjust to varying conditions so that
foster-home placement to her was not the agonizing experience that it is
to some children. Moreover, she seems to have been from the first an
objective, eager, alert, social youngster who most fortunately
compensated for her family inferiorities by a complete going over into
school life and active energetic expression in work and play....
The dismissal from her foster-home seems to have been caused by behavior
which was natural enough on the part of a developing adolescent girl.
She merely carried over too much of her superabundant energy into
parties and good times with boys.... The dark side of her life here was
her introduction to sex experience through the foster father. These
experiences, shocking at first, were finally accepted as a matter of
course and sank into the background of an existence in which objective
interests—school, companions, good times, farm work, held first place.
There seems never to have been any deep conflict nor any marked feeling
of shame or inferiority. It was taken as part of the day’s work,
something which went along with living in this foster-home which for the
most part was desirable. She wanted to keep on with her school. She was
afraid to tell the wife. She had none of the ordinary sex morality which
most of us have absorbed from infancy on. The easiest way was to keep
still and adjust. When Mary was asked how she felt about sex, she
replied characteristically and cheerfully: “Well, the world is made that
way, you just have to accept it. It isn’t any use to worry about it, you
might as well take people as they are.”
Although these years in Mary’s life apparently left no scar, they did
break down completely any sex inhibitions she might have had, aroused
sex needs and accustomed her to the habit of sex expression. It meant
that when she went to live with her mother, she experienced no
particular shock and was illy prepared to offer resistance to the
advances of her mother’s paramour who found her so much more attractive
than her mother and with whom she was thoroughly infatuated....
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